R~E~S~P~E~C~T …. by Tiger RoxXx
Well hello there my little love kittens! It's your happy go lucky tiger here with an article all about the R~E~S~P~E~C~T! Find out what it means to me! You know it's what you want, so baby you better have it. Well, that was fun- but seriously dolls, let's talk about having a little respect.
There are so many different levels to this topic that I may need to write a series. I'll hit the main floor running and then see where this leads us, K? So my bitty love birds, let's get out our lil' black book of values and see where you might fall short.
R~ Representation
Whether tryst or marriage you should never be ashamed of being with that person. Your love toy should be someone you would stand beside without worry. This doesn't mean you have to post your business on the Internet, make blogs about it, or yell it at the top of the rooftops. Love is love baby, but in two weeks when it sours and a new one enters it may make for more interesting reading.
E~ Enjoy
Rule number nine is “If it's not fun, don't do it!” in the Tiger RoxXx book of respect! When it stops being enjoyable a decision of self-respect needs to be made. It is no good to you or them if you have worked on it, it failed, and you keep trying to resuscitate. Just let it go.
S~ Safety
OK, I am gonna just say it. Use protection. Respect your body enough to keep it safe and disease free. Always! Don't make excuses to yourself, or take excuses from someone else. That moment in time is nothing compared to what could happen to your body for an eternity!
P~ Picky
Choose who you get involved with wisely. This is a lesson everyone should learn. Biologically humans are programmed to attach to people they have sex with. The more intimate you are the more attached you become. Respect yourself enough to not allow an attachment with someone you are not compatible with, much less someone you can't stand to have a meal with.
E~ Entertaining
I like milk, do you? There must be more than the fact you both breathe and eat in common to make a respectful bond. I mean some times a good ole roll in the hay is awesome, but at some point you may want to actually talk. This will be impossible with no mutual interest points. Having no real commonalities means one talks and one pretends to listen. This is not a conversation.
C~ Compassion
Sex is sex, that is true... but even the most tawdry encounters should have a little give and take. Sharing is caring doll, so be sure that you respect the coupling with mutual reciprocation. If you can't treat that person the way you want them to treat you, then you are cheating yourself.
T~ Time
“I just want your extra time and your... KISS”. Serious, Fling, or in between your plaything should make a little time for you. It needs to be a mutual agreement how much, when, and where. If they can't respect your reasonable needs of interaction then they don't respect you at all. Period! You both have to be willing to invest a little to get your returns.
So loves, this is the tip of the R~E~S~P~E~C~T iceberg. Keep these things in mind when you are mating. Just remember~ what you do with your body, mind, and life is your choice... and ultimately your responsibility. Why waste it? Respect yourself enough to do what you want and need!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
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Saturday, August 8, 2009
How to date a psychopath
How to date a psychopath... by Tiger RoxXx
Hello there my bonny beauties. It's your lascivious love here with some wise words of wisdom. Now some of you are obviously hell-bent on going down the road to crazieville, bags packed and with a lunch. So as I always say, if you are going to do something you should do it right! Here is Tiger RoxXx's guide to dating a psychopath.
First you have to find the right psycho for your needs. I would suggest a little investigation. Does said prospect have many ex girlfriends that he can't/won't talk to? Babies Mama's filled with drama and past playthings with problems? GREAT! Your potential doll is more than likely the root of the issue, so that is one sure psycho sign. Also look for signals that someone just left this berserker's bed. Serial Psycho's are never alone too long. Of course, you can check for a criminal record, but more than likely they will try to keep that clean. So now you have found this screwball what should you do next?
Well, the next step is to say goodbye to all your friends. You see in order to keep your new love happy it has to be you and them. ONLY! If you can't accomplish your friend removal alone I am sure your new babe will get to it for you. Alienating your friends, talking bad about them to you, making you believe your mates are all against against you are only a few ways that lovie will help you out.
Once all your friends are gone then it leaves time for you to spend every waking hour with your fresh love. Continually answering the non-stop calls, staying in touch repeatedly during your day, and being at a beckoning call are just some of the joys you can look forward to. This gears you up for all the wonderful arguments you get to have later when you are busy and gets you used to having controlling input in your life... forever!
I love you! Really, I do. Oh, how quickly you can fall in love with your brainsick mate. The average psycho is capable of love with in days if not hours. They will tell you, too. Of course be aware that they were completely mislead with the last 20 girls they fell in love at first site. Those girls are total hoes who tricked him into saying something he didn't mean... much less he didn't know what love was until he met you.
It would be extremely helpful for you to make a schedule of your entire days where abouts, so it is easier for him to keep track of you. Better yet, just blow off everything you thought was important in life. What could be more awe striking than sitting mindlessly while watching your sweetie taking care of his business while your to do list piles high? I mean you have SO much in common, right? Well, now you do because you should change all your values, hopes, dreams, beliefs, and life plans to match his. If you love him then it's totally worth giving up your future, right? SO get on track with his plan.
Now that you have the basics in place it's time to talk wardrobe. You certainly should stop dressing so risqué, but be sure you always look your best. That leaves out cleavage, tight pants, short skirts, fitted clothes, and basically anything cool. You can also get rid of your sweat pants, comfy sleep clothes, and anything that would be nice to lay around the house in. Just to be safe, why don't you let your amazing new guy choose your outfits for you. I mean, he know best what you like to wear anyway, since you have changed everything to fit his taste. The money you could make at a yard sale from your discards would be amazing, if only he wanted you to have a yard sale, but that is probably to much focus on your needs.
The last thing you have to remember is his needs always come first. So turn that frown upside down and listen to everything horrible that has, is, and will happen to him. Remember, as a psycho there will be a lot! There is no time for ANY of your petty drama, so just keep it to yourself. Otherwise you might get caught in a misery show down to see who has the worst problems AND you surely know as a psycho he always has to be right and win.
I could discuss how to act appropriately in regards to money, how he feels about the idea that you actually had previous boyfriends, the way you carry yourself in public, choosing a restaurant, taste in music, or so many of the other ways to give up any shed of who you are or ever will be, but I think this is enough to work with for now. So whether you realized you were taking a trip on the crazy train or not, are in denial, or purposeful choose to abuse yourself with horrible a relationship I hope these tips help you out. I just wanted to give you some perspective.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
PS Tiger RoxXx does not condone or believe in allowing any of the above behavior. Please seek help and get out if you are truly being oppressed.,
Hello there my bonny beauties. It's your lascivious love here with some wise words of wisdom. Now some of you are obviously hell-bent on going down the road to crazieville, bags packed and with a lunch. So as I always say, if you are going to do something you should do it right! Here is Tiger RoxXx's guide to dating a psychopath.
First you have to find the right psycho for your needs. I would suggest a little investigation. Does said prospect have many ex girlfriends that he can't/won't talk to? Babies Mama's filled with drama and past playthings with problems? GREAT! Your potential doll is more than likely the root of the issue, so that is one sure psycho sign. Also look for signals that someone just left this berserker's bed. Serial Psycho's are never alone too long. Of course, you can check for a criminal record, but more than likely they will try to keep that clean. So now you have found this screwball what should you do next?
Well, the next step is to say goodbye to all your friends. You see in order to keep your new love happy it has to be you and them. ONLY! If you can't accomplish your friend removal alone I am sure your new babe will get to it for you. Alienating your friends, talking bad about them to you, making you believe your mates are all against against you are only a few ways that lovie will help you out.
Once all your friends are gone then it leaves time for you to spend every waking hour with your fresh love. Continually answering the non-stop calls, staying in touch repeatedly during your day, and being at a beckoning call are just some of the joys you can look forward to. This gears you up for all the wonderful arguments you get to have later when you are busy and gets you used to having controlling input in your life... forever!
I love you! Really, I do. Oh, how quickly you can fall in love with your brainsick mate. The average psycho is capable of love with in days if not hours. They will tell you, too. Of course be aware that they were completely mislead with the last 20 girls they fell in love at first site. Those girls are total hoes who tricked him into saying something he didn't mean... much less he didn't know what love was until he met you.
It would be extremely helpful for you to make a schedule of your entire days where abouts, so it is easier for him to keep track of you. Better yet, just blow off everything you thought was important in life. What could be more awe striking than sitting mindlessly while watching your sweetie taking care of his business while your to do list piles high? I mean you have SO much in common, right? Well, now you do because you should change all your values, hopes, dreams, beliefs, and life plans to match his. If you love him then it's totally worth giving up your future, right? SO get on track with his plan.
Now that you have the basics in place it's time to talk wardrobe. You certainly should stop dressing so risqué, but be sure you always look your best. That leaves out cleavage, tight pants, short skirts, fitted clothes, and basically anything cool. You can also get rid of your sweat pants, comfy sleep clothes, and anything that would be nice to lay around the house in. Just to be safe, why don't you let your amazing new guy choose your outfits for you. I mean, he know best what you like to wear anyway, since you have changed everything to fit his taste. The money you could make at a yard sale from your discards would be amazing, if only he wanted you to have a yard sale, but that is probably to much focus on your needs.
The last thing you have to remember is his needs always come first. So turn that frown upside down and listen to everything horrible that has, is, and will happen to him. Remember, as a psycho there will be a lot! There is no time for ANY of your petty drama, so just keep it to yourself. Otherwise you might get caught in a misery show down to see who has the worst problems AND you surely know as a psycho he always has to be right and win.
I could discuss how to act appropriately in regards to money, how he feels about the idea that you actually had previous boyfriends, the way you carry yourself in public, choosing a restaurant, taste in music, or so many of the other ways to give up any shed of who you are or ever will be, but I think this is enough to work with for now. So whether you realized you were taking a trip on the crazy train or not, are in denial, or purposeful choose to abuse yourself with horrible a relationship I hope these tips help you out. I just wanted to give you some perspective.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
PS Tiger RoxXx does not condone or believe in allowing any of the above behavior. Please seek help and get out if you are truly being oppressed.,
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Five Girlie No No’s…
Five Girlie No No’s… by Tiger RoxXx
Happy Saint Valentine’s Day my little lovers! I thought in this month full of passion and affection I would give you ladies five clues on what scare’s off the opposite sex. Of course there are many things that make us ‘hot under the collar’, but these top five traits will keep you in the clear if you can avoid them. Steam your love up in a good way, instead of making your Fella smelter with aggravation.
Since we pick on the guys often enough I thought I would help you sassy lass’s out this month with these little behavioral No No’s.
No No #1. Acting jealous – Jealousy is unbecoming. It makes a man feel backed into the fire. To much pressure can make a guy explode… and we aren’t talking wet dreams here. Be confident and self assured, if you have a jealousy problem you should not be with anyone until you are satisfied with yourself.
No No #2. Being too emotional –Having emotions at the right time is great, but remember men and women speak different languages. If you are not aware of the distinction between your emotional levels and his it could make for uncomfortable exchanges. Do not change who you are, change how you communicate it. This will allow for the heat in the relationship to stay in the right places.
No No #3. Seeming needy – While your actions may not appear needy to you, perception is reality in the man’s world. Multiple calls, stop ins, and communications can definitely seem over bearing to a guy, while to a chic it is ‘getting to know you’ time. Make plans to see each other so he will burn for you when he does see you.
No No #4. Talking to much – Now girls, don’t get offended… but we all know that due to nerves, habit, and nature chica’s are prone to let their mouths blaze way more than gente’s have patience for. This can lead to lots of issue’s… those skeletons come out of the closet way to early, character flaws seem amplified, and you don’t have time to listen which allows him to hide his weaknesses. Try to give it as much as you get it, ladies.
No No #5. Using sex as a weapon – I have heard comments implying that I am killer in bed, drop dead gorgeous, and that I execute tease with expertise BUT I would never use my skills for evil. In past articles we have discussed proper conduct to communicate, how to identify a loser, and ways to leave your lover so playing spiteful games is not necessary!!! Stooping to his level by using sex as a weapon is bad, and you will get no spankings. Find a better way to play or you will find yourself playing with fire.
So my darling dolls, these are the naughty No No’s that will put out your love’s flames if you aren’t careful. I hope you have a happy Valentine’s day that is No No free on me!
Meow baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Happy Saint Valentine’s Day my little lovers! I thought in this month full of passion and affection I would give you ladies five clues on what scare’s off the opposite sex. Of course there are many things that make us ‘hot under the collar’, but these top five traits will keep you in the clear if you can avoid them. Steam your love up in a good way, instead of making your Fella smelter with aggravation.
Since we pick on the guys often enough I thought I would help you sassy lass’s out this month with these little behavioral No No’s.
No No #1. Acting jealous – Jealousy is unbecoming. It makes a man feel backed into the fire. To much pressure can make a guy explode… and we aren’t talking wet dreams here. Be confident and self assured, if you have a jealousy problem you should not be with anyone until you are satisfied with yourself.
No No #2. Being too emotional –Having emotions at the right time is great, but remember men and women speak different languages. If you are not aware of the distinction between your emotional levels and his it could make for uncomfortable exchanges. Do not change who you are, change how you communicate it. This will allow for the heat in the relationship to stay in the right places.
No No #3. Seeming needy – While your actions may not appear needy to you, perception is reality in the man’s world. Multiple calls, stop ins, and communications can definitely seem over bearing to a guy, while to a chic it is ‘getting to know you’ time. Make plans to see each other so he will burn for you when he does see you.
No No #4. Talking to much – Now girls, don’t get offended… but we all know that due to nerves, habit, and nature chica’s are prone to let their mouths blaze way more than gente’s have patience for. This can lead to lots of issue’s… those skeletons come out of the closet way to early, character flaws seem amplified, and you don’t have time to listen which allows him to hide his weaknesses. Try to give it as much as you get it, ladies.
No No #5. Using sex as a weapon – I have heard comments implying that I am killer in bed, drop dead gorgeous, and that I execute tease with expertise BUT I would never use my skills for evil. In past articles we have discussed proper conduct to communicate, how to identify a loser, and ways to leave your lover so playing spiteful games is not necessary!!! Stooping to his level by using sex as a weapon is bad, and you will get no spankings. Find a better way to play or you will find yourself playing with fire.
So my darling dolls, these are the naughty No No’s that will put out your love’s flames if you aren’t careful. I hope you have a happy Valentine’s day that is No No free on me!
Meow baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Thursday, October 2, 2008
What's love got to do with it?
What's love got to do with it?
The Tiger RoxXx guide to casual dating…by Tiger RoxXx
September, 2008
Happy hot summer nights my juicy darlings! It is your friendly neighborhood sex kitten here to chat about that misunderstood topic of the casual relationship. Now we all know that everybody wants somebody to love, but you may have to play the field before you find that special one to that makes you want to settle in for the home run! So, it is up to you to decide how you make the best of it when you play the game.
But what is casual dating? By definition it is: two people who are trying to get to know one another better, without commitments or promises through dating. Either or both parties can be casually dating other people. Nice! Right? Well, it should be! How do you keep it all in the pretty little package it started out in? Let's discuss the guide to being a causal dater.
1) Open Communication. Be clear on your motives for being a casual dater. Is it to find 'the one'? Is it because you are not ready for a commitment? Is it because you love multiple relationships? Whatever, just be clear! The other person should live with it and continue to date you or move to someone with the same goals.
2) Make dating boundaries. Make sure there are clear and established expectations. There doesn't have to be a regiment, but if both parties understand the 'contact' rules then there will be no surprises that cause either party to be uncomfortable later and possibly a good thing to stop. Do you think public affection is 'a fine time' and she thinks it is 'not so much', is she calling every day and you consider that invasion of space?… these are things that need to be determined…and what about sex? Enough said!
3) Do not expect it to turn into a relationship. Even if both parties' goals are to look for their love, the issue may seem forced if you push it and therefore won't flow as easy. Just concentrate on the date not a mate.
4) Date multiple people. You are casual dating, so don't limit yourself. If you bound yourself to only one person, you can not see all of your options and experience the opportunities of casual dating.
5) Date a variety of compatible people. If you cookie cutter your options you might as well just stop now! Sure we all have our tastes and likes and dislikes, but that doesn't mean our idea of a good time can't vary in a wide spectrum. Try to flow from one end of it to the other to be sure you shop around.
So my darling daters don't feel bad about fooling around with your share of sweet hearts in order to end up with the right tasty treat. Oh, and dating means you have to actually do something you both like at a planned time. You don't have to spend money but there is a difference in dating and hanging out…but that is another lesson in itself. (hint hint) And remember that you are your best beloved, so love yourself first!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
The Tiger RoxXx guide to casual dating…by Tiger RoxXx
September, 2008
Happy hot summer nights my juicy darlings! It is your friendly neighborhood sex kitten here to chat about that misunderstood topic of the casual relationship. Now we all know that everybody wants somebody to love, but you may have to play the field before you find that special one to that makes you want to settle in for the home run! So, it is up to you to decide how you make the best of it when you play the game.
But what is casual dating? By definition it is: two people who are trying to get to know one another better, without commitments or promises through dating. Either or both parties can be casually dating other people. Nice! Right? Well, it should be! How do you keep it all in the pretty little package it started out in? Let's discuss the guide to being a causal dater.
1) Open Communication. Be clear on your motives for being a casual dater. Is it to find 'the one'? Is it because you are not ready for a commitment? Is it because you love multiple relationships? Whatever, just be clear! The other person should live with it and continue to date you or move to someone with the same goals.
2) Make dating boundaries. Make sure there are clear and established expectations. There doesn't have to be a regiment, but if both parties understand the 'contact' rules then there will be no surprises that cause either party to be uncomfortable later and possibly a good thing to stop. Do you think public affection is 'a fine time' and she thinks it is 'not so much', is she calling every day and you consider that invasion of space?… these are things that need to be determined…and what about sex? Enough said!
3) Do not expect it to turn into a relationship. Even if both parties' goals are to look for their love, the issue may seem forced if you push it and therefore won't flow as easy. Just concentrate on the date not a mate.
4) Date multiple people. You are casual dating, so don't limit yourself. If you bound yourself to only one person, you can not see all of your options and experience the opportunities of casual dating.
5) Date a variety of compatible people. If you cookie cutter your options you might as well just stop now! Sure we all have our tastes and likes and dislikes, but that doesn't mean our idea of a good time can't vary in a wide spectrum. Try to flow from one end of it to the other to be sure you shop around.
So my darling daters don't feel bad about fooling around with your share of sweet hearts in order to end up with the right tasty treat. Oh, and dating means you have to actually do something you both like at a planned time. You don't have to spend money but there is a difference in dating and hanging out…but that is another lesson in itself. (hint hint) And remember that you are your best beloved, so love yourself first!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
He said, She heard by Tiger RoxXx
He said, She heard
Hello my darlings, it is your favorite vicious kitten here to talk about the most common mistake you lads and lass's make when it comes to coming together. Bad communication! I see it on the streets and in the bars, and have even been a victim of it myself at times. Why is it so common? Why such an issue? Men and women speak different languages, listen differently, and comprehend in totally separate manners. So what is the deal?
Men seem to speak one language, the one of carnal urges,while women speak the ancient art of the unspoken word.SO how do we get the two worlds to meet? Thinking you had made yourself clear, and somehow, someway, the earsyou were whispering in misread your signals! Whether it is the commonly dreaded "I'm OK!" to the unspoken languagethat he should just KNOW! There is one thing that is for sure- if you do not speak your mind clearly you will not be heard.
So here are your Tiger Tidbits to be sure we are all speaking the same jive talk!
1) Communication is more than just talking. You have to be sure to make your statement in clear, concise, and easyto understand manner. Put it in a way that would take away any feelings of negativity, even if saying things that the otherperson may not like or agree with. Keep the ears you are speaking to as open as your mouth, so other avenues will stay open as well.
2) Listening is key. In order to have open communication it must be two sided. That means listen as well as speak. Donot just hear, but understand what your cutie is saying. Be open to hear the whole story no matter what it is, and they will be open to your stories as well.
3) Confirm. If you have any questions at all, or think you are missing something - ask. Also, if you feel the least bit up-set by what your sweetheart is saying, make sure you know. You may have misunderstood. It's better to ask and let a fire start in the right place later than keep your mouth shutwhile flames of anger burn bright.
4) Be yourself. Don't change your views, self, or attitudes to blend towards your mate - eventually your true opinions will surface. Put your real opinion forward so your little lovie will know what you think- like it, love it, or don't want to take it they have a right to hear it and maketheir own decisions.
5) Chit chat. Don't always talk about serious stuff. Especially in long term relationships cohorts seem to discuss business only. Be sure to keep an open line of communication and playfulness through spontaneous chit chat.
So that is my communication to you my loves, you know I like to keep it flowing! Now go out and spread the word!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Hello my darlings, it is your favorite vicious kitten here to talk about the most common mistake you lads and lass's make when it comes to coming together. Bad communication! I see it on the streets and in the bars, and have even been a victim of it myself at times. Why is it so common? Why such an issue? Men and women speak different languages, listen differently, and comprehend in totally separate manners. So what is the deal?
Men seem to speak one language, the one of carnal urges,while women speak the ancient art of the unspoken word.SO how do we get the two worlds to meet? Thinking you had made yourself clear, and somehow, someway, the earsyou were whispering in misread your signals! Whether it is the commonly dreaded "I'm OK!" to the unspoken languagethat he should just KNOW! There is one thing that is for sure- if you do not speak your mind clearly you will not be heard.
So here are your Tiger Tidbits to be sure we are all speaking the same jive talk!
1) Communication is more than just talking. You have to be sure to make your statement in clear, concise, and easyto understand manner. Put it in a way that would take away any feelings of negativity, even if saying things that the otherperson may not like or agree with. Keep the ears you are speaking to as open as your mouth, so other avenues will stay open as well.
2) Listening is key. In order to have open communication it must be two sided. That means listen as well as speak. Donot just hear, but understand what your cutie is saying. Be open to hear the whole story no matter what it is, and they will be open to your stories as well.
3) Confirm. If you have any questions at all, or think you are missing something - ask. Also, if you feel the least bit up-set by what your sweetheart is saying, make sure you know. You may have misunderstood. It's better to ask and let a fire start in the right place later than keep your mouth shutwhile flames of anger burn bright.
4) Be yourself. Don't change your views, self, or attitudes to blend towards your mate - eventually your true opinions will surface. Put your real opinion forward so your little lovie will know what you think- like it, love it, or don't want to take it they have a right to hear it and maketheir own decisions.
5) Chit chat. Don't always talk about serious stuff. Especially in long term relationships cohorts seem to discuss business only. Be sure to keep an open line of communication and playfulness through spontaneous chit chat.
So that is my communication to you my loves, you know I like to keep it flowing! Now go out and spread the word!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Visit my T-Shirt Shop
Visit my T-Shirt Shop
Hi there my sexy friends!I have my own little T-Shirt shop with funny sayings, sexy T's, and YES...Tiger RoxXx logo shirts!
Go to http://220821.spreadshirt.com/us/US/Shop to see what is going on, and purchase yours today!
New styles and designs are added daily!
XOXOXOXOXOXO
Tiger RoxXx
Hi there my sexy friends!I have my own little T-Shirt shop with funny sayings, sexy T's, and YES...Tiger RoxXx logo shirts!
Go to http://220821.spreadshirt.com/us/US/Shop to see what is going on, and purchase yours today!
New styles and designs are added daily!
XOXOXOXOXOXO
Tiger RoxXx
Love Sick- When Romance makes you Ill
Love Sick- When Romance makes you Ill…by Tiger RoxXx
Hi there my lovelies! It’s your sharp toothed feline friend here with a few words to sink your teeth into. We are creeping into the dog days of summer, and as the heat grows so can the passion of the season. This little number is about that crazy thing called love, and how it can get out of control. “Crazy…Crazy in love with you!” That is how the song goes, right? You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you can’t think of anything but your love. Well, what is fine as wine and what is that one step that puts you over the edge? Let’s talk about it!
Most people want someone they can share a part of themselves with, open up to, be a part of- but what happens when that connection of selves blurs your lives? Love addiction is a serious problem that is often over looked in relationships. (“she’s pyscho…he’s possesive”) We have all had those bad relationship’s, I talk about them all the time, but what happens when you turn that person into a focal point and the love goes bad? It happens more than you know.
Love Addiction affects a person like any other impulse action except that it has to do with love and sexual interactions. Since ‘love’ is part of the addiction people often don’t understand the dangers involved in the situation. A person may fall so deeply they react and act differently then they would in a normal situation, becoming obsessed with a person and the connecting interactive situations. This does not necessary stem from their lover- don’t get it twisted, mister, it wasn’t about you- but about life situation they were lacking at the time. A love addict can also carry those habits into other relationships, once the traits are learned.
So, are you nervous yet? Are you looking around to see if you are the addict or your love? Well, here are some signs:
Do you lack trust in any relationship?
Do you need a partner in order to feel worthy?
Are you tolerant of excessive behavior?
Do you have several addictions?
Do you believe love is the same thing as sex?
So now what? Well with any style of addiction you have to recognize and decide you want to make a change. Then go to the root of the issue, because like I said it’s not the love it’s the addict… what is the addict lacking that needs to be filled with the obessive love. Then seek help because this is a serious matter. Love addiction can lead to dramatic and aggressive behavior if the addict is not responded to properly. Talk to someone about it, keep yourself in check!
Well, my tasty treats, those are my words of wisdom for this month of heat!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Hi there my lovelies! It’s your sharp toothed feline friend here with a few words to sink your teeth into. We are creeping into the dog days of summer, and as the heat grows so can the passion of the season. This little number is about that crazy thing called love, and how it can get out of control. “Crazy…Crazy in love with you!” That is how the song goes, right? You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you can’t think of anything but your love. Well, what is fine as wine and what is that one step that puts you over the edge? Let’s talk about it!
Most people want someone they can share a part of themselves with, open up to, be a part of- but what happens when that connection of selves blurs your lives? Love addiction is a serious problem that is often over looked in relationships. (“she’s pyscho…he’s possesive”) We have all had those bad relationship’s, I talk about them all the time, but what happens when you turn that person into a focal point and the love goes bad? It happens more than you know.
Love Addiction affects a person like any other impulse action except that it has to do with love and sexual interactions. Since ‘love’ is part of the addiction people often don’t understand the dangers involved in the situation. A person may fall so deeply they react and act differently then they would in a normal situation, becoming obsessed with a person and the connecting interactive situations. This does not necessary stem from their lover- don’t get it twisted, mister, it wasn’t about you- but about life situation they were lacking at the time. A love addict can also carry those habits into other relationships, once the traits are learned.
So, are you nervous yet? Are you looking around to see if you are the addict or your love? Well, here are some signs:
Do you lack trust in any relationship?
Do you need a partner in order to feel worthy?
Are you tolerant of excessive behavior?
Do you have several addictions?
Do you believe love is the same thing as sex?
So now what? Well with any style of addiction you have to recognize and decide you want to make a change. Then go to the root of the issue, because like I said it’s not the love it’s the addict… what is the addict lacking that needs to be filled with the obessive love. Then seek help because this is a serious matter. Love addiction can lead to dramatic and aggressive behavior if the addict is not responded to properly. Talk to someone about it, keep yourself in check!
Well, my tasty treats, those are my words of wisdom for this month of heat!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Five clues that he is a loser!
Alright Girlies, now we can all relate to those loser bois who at the first sniff are easily defined as rotten meat. But what about those sneaky little cons who have mastered the art of the game, and have learned enough tricks to get past a slightly seasoned lady. Those of you who have just gotten out of a relationship, have decided to give someone a chance, or are fresh to the local scene may fall prey to these devilish pranksters and before you know it you think you are in for the Thing and they are in for that Thang!
Here are some signs to watch out that your man is not out to be 'your man'…
The first clue is how he treats other people. He is trying to impress you, but if he is rude to the server, the valet, or makes remarks to you about being rude or impolite to other people- then that is probably his true nature and that will come out towards you eventually.
Do a background check on previous relationships and friendships with some simple questions during the first date. If he is constantly the victim in his life, then there are probably character defaults he is not showing to you right now. Does he have a past that he is not sharing, or does every girlfriend he has ever been with hate him? WHY? This is a fine line to balance by you as well, too many questions make you to prying, but you have to ask just enough to get your info.
Is he consistent? These pranksters often have two or three stories going on at one time, much less two or three girls, make sure you listen that they all match as far as dates. This is the easiest technique to catch a fibber. Every lie is wrapped in some truth, it is these truths that will make them fumble. Did he spend Christmas will Sally and New Years with Jenny??? This will let you know his true colors and where you need to head.
Be wary of a guy who acts totally into you on the first date. This is an old trick that sometimes catch's a girl off guard. There is a difference between chemistry and wanting to get between the sheets. Make sure you are speaking the same language. We all want to get laid, but make sure you know what happens next.
Does he seem too good to be true? Well then he probably is. I know that sounds cynical, but how many of your totally in love and happy friends had the most mystical perfect take your breathe away feeling on the first date? Think of how you are acting and feeling, does he match you? Is he too touchy, laid back, romantic, mushy, compared to how you would normally act on a first date? If so, move on.
Well, kiddies, this is the humble yet jaded opinion of the Player Slayer, saying happy hunting, be safe (in every way), and don't let a good man keep you down unless there is handcuffs and a friendly spanking involved.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Here are some signs to watch out that your man is not out to be 'your man'…
The first clue is how he treats other people. He is trying to impress you, but if he is rude to the server, the valet, or makes remarks to you about being rude or impolite to other people- then that is probably his true nature and that will come out towards you eventually.
Do a background check on previous relationships and friendships with some simple questions during the first date. If he is constantly the victim in his life, then there are probably character defaults he is not showing to you right now. Does he have a past that he is not sharing, or does every girlfriend he has ever been with hate him? WHY? This is a fine line to balance by you as well, too many questions make you to prying, but you have to ask just enough to get your info.
Is he consistent? These pranksters often have two or three stories going on at one time, much less two or three girls, make sure you listen that they all match as far as dates. This is the easiest technique to catch a fibber. Every lie is wrapped in some truth, it is these truths that will make them fumble. Did he spend Christmas will Sally and New Years with Jenny??? This will let you know his true colors and where you need to head.
Be wary of a guy who acts totally into you on the first date. This is an old trick that sometimes catch's a girl off guard. There is a difference between chemistry and wanting to get between the sheets. Make sure you are speaking the same language. We all want to get laid, but make sure you know what happens next.
Does he seem too good to be true? Well then he probably is. I know that sounds cynical, but how many of your totally in love and happy friends had the most mystical perfect take your breathe away feeling on the first date? Think of how you are acting and feeling, does he match you? Is he too touchy, laid back, romantic, mushy, compared to how you would normally act on a first date? If so, move on.
Well, kiddies, this is the humble yet jaded opinion of the Player Slayer, saying happy hunting, be safe (in every way), and don't let a good man keep you down unless there is handcuffs and a friendly spanking involved.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
How not to get laid~ a guys guide to panty perusing mistakes.
Hello Kiddies! It's your friendly neighborhood sex kitten here with a look at getting picked up from a doggie's point a view. Now all of us ladies have been affronted or even 'a-back-ed' by some hapless hound that needed a few pointers before he approached a doll like us. So, I thought I would take it upon myself to help these cute little fellows out before they made those all too crucial mistakes that turned our stomachs, much less our hearts.
Let's start with the basics… "Hey!" is not a pick up line, a compliment, or even a complete sentence. If that is the extent of your conversation, then you should not be leaving the house. Adding the word "Baby" to it doesn't help matters, so come up with something else. This has never worked, and will never work…stop trying. Think before you speak and come up with something clever to say to us, and add a compliment in for good measure.
Speaking of being a-back-ed, edging up to the rear end of a girl while she is dancing at the club may work for a split second while she is drunk, but it is rarely the best method. Come straight at us, we like to see what we are dealing with. If you have nothing to hide, meet us face to face. Girls are attracted to confidence and non-physical attributes which will be portrayed through eye contact and body language.
Buy a girl a drink, and don't ask what she is drinking- just know! Didn't you learn anything from Hitch? This doesn't mean you have to let her drink on you all night (sorry ladies) but showing her you are interested enough to bring her a cocktail is a great way to get one step closer to where you want to be- next to her.
Recognize the difference between someone who is flirting and just being nice. Some girls can't blow a guy off; it is no good to waste time on someone who is not attracted to you. Learn to pick up the warning signs of someone who is not interested and just move on. It is less painful for everyone involved this way.
And lastly but not leastly…Don't hang all over her once you have made the approach. This will keep things interesting, for you and her. You don't have to hold hands, suck face, and drown yourself in her ALL night… dipping in and out of her circle and staying in close proximity shows your interest without smothering her. It makes the flirting and touching you do all the more sexy! Her friends will appreciate the space, and it will still give you the time to get to know each other and watch each other interact.
Well Dolls and Dogs, I hope this helps your pre-dating experiences get a tickle bit better. Once you have made it through the approach, all you have to do then is keep her interested. This is Tiger RoXXX saying be nice to each other or who else will, besides me, of course!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Let's start with the basics… "Hey!" is not a pick up line, a compliment, or even a complete sentence. If that is the extent of your conversation, then you should not be leaving the house. Adding the word "Baby" to it doesn't help matters, so come up with something else. This has never worked, and will never work…stop trying. Think before you speak and come up with something clever to say to us, and add a compliment in for good measure.
Speaking of being a-back-ed, edging up to the rear end of a girl while she is dancing at the club may work for a split second while she is drunk, but it is rarely the best method. Come straight at us, we like to see what we are dealing with. If you have nothing to hide, meet us face to face. Girls are attracted to confidence and non-physical attributes which will be portrayed through eye contact and body language.
Buy a girl a drink, and don't ask what she is drinking- just know! Didn't you learn anything from Hitch? This doesn't mean you have to let her drink on you all night (sorry ladies) but showing her you are interested enough to bring her a cocktail is a great way to get one step closer to where you want to be- next to her.
Recognize the difference between someone who is flirting and just being nice. Some girls can't blow a guy off; it is no good to waste time on someone who is not attracted to you. Learn to pick up the warning signs of someone who is not interested and just move on. It is less painful for everyone involved this way.
And lastly but not leastly…Don't hang all over her once you have made the approach. This will keep things interesting, for you and her. You don't have to hold hands, suck face, and drown yourself in her ALL night… dipping in and out of her circle and staying in close proximity shows your interest without smothering her. It makes the flirting and touching you do all the more sexy! Her friends will appreciate the space, and it will still give you the time to get to know each other and watch each other interact.
Well Dolls and Dogs, I hope this helps your pre-dating experiences get a tickle bit better. Once you have made it through the approach, all you have to do then is keep her interested. This is Tiger RoXXX saying be nice to each other or who else will, besides me, of course!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
From 'sure' to sheets~ A Valentines Day guide to getting laid.
Hello there lovers! A big sexy wet kiss to you all to start off this sloppy month of entanglement. The topic on everyone's mind is romance and that special day- February 14th, Valentines! With that said I thought I would give you a few tart and tangy suggestions to tailor your valentine plans so you are sure to steer your sweetie to the bedroom.
Rule number one is to think out of the box! (Not just about her box) Anyone can do dinner and a movie, you want to stand out. If you want to do dinner think about mixing it up-cook it yourself, make reservations somewhere memorable like the place your first met, take her somewhere she has always wanted to go, or find somewhere out of the ordinary like a picnic at an ice rink. (If that suits her personality) It has to be something more than a usual date to ensure she gets warmed up.
Rule number two is plan, plan, plan. Don't ask her what she wants, or where she wants to go…especially on your way there. Think about what she would want and then have it all arranged. When you take charge and show her you know what she wants, you will be more likely to get what you want later!
Rule number three is overindulging! Women emphasize this day like they are keeping count. Even a single rose is better than no flowers at all, a note or poem if you can't get a gift, the more points you rack up the more likely you are to score.
Rule number four treat her like a princess! When a lady feels like a princess- attractive, sensuous, on top of the world- then she acts the same. Her princess juices will start flowing in the direction of the one who got them going. YOU!
Rule number five is most important- appreciate what you have worked for! Once you get to the point of seduction don't ruin it by rushing in. Satisfy all parties involved with a slow and thorough job. Nobody likes a minute man and you don't want to have done all that work just to 'blow it'!
So that is my advice to you fellows! Hope these tidbits help you get closer to your end goals- happiness and satisfaction. Make the most of your "Valentine Treats" so March can come in like a Lion!
Meow Baby,
Rule number one is to think out of the box! (Not just about her box) Anyone can do dinner and a movie, you want to stand out. If you want to do dinner think about mixing it up-cook it yourself, make reservations somewhere memorable like the place your first met, take her somewhere she has always wanted to go, or find somewhere out of the ordinary like a picnic at an ice rink. (If that suits her personality) It has to be something more than a usual date to ensure she gets warmed up.
Rule number two is plan, plan, plan. Don't ask her what she wants, or where she wants to go…especially on your way there. Think about what she would want and then have it all arranged. When you take charge and show her you know what she wants, you will be more likely to get what you want later!
Rule number three is overindulging! Women emphasize this day like they are keeping count. Even a single rose is better than no flowers at all, a note or poem if you can't get a gift, the more points you rack up the more likely you are to score.
Rule number four treat her like a princess! When a lady feels like a princess- attractive, sensuous, on top of the world- then she acts the same. Her princess juices will start flowing in the direction of the one who got them going. YOU!
Rule number five is most important- appreciate what you have worked for! Once you get to the point of seduction don't ruin it by rushing in. Satisfy all parties involved with a slow and thorough job. Nobody likes a minute man and you don't want to have done all that work just to 'blow it'!
So that is my advice to you fellows! Hope these tidbits help you get closer to your end goals- happiness and satisfaction. Make the most of your "Valentine Treats" so March can come in like a Lion!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
How to stalk your stalker...
Hi there gents and dolls! It’s your favorite little kitty peeking through the weeds of mischief like a true Tiger can to teach you how to truly stalk your stalker. Now before we move into my comedic, yet informative, monologue I want to say really being stalked is a serious matter which you should report to the proper authorities. Never take serious and dangerous matters into your own hands!
Now onto our lessons…
Everyone has been in one of THOSE relationships! The one’s that start off feeling warm and fuzzy and then end up with having to have a 200lb hemorrhoid removed from your touché! But how did it happen???
More than likely you went from dating to relationship in 5.2 seconds without checking your early warning signs. Whether it’s a crotch scratching fella or bon bon eating lass, it is sure that there was one common factor in your posterior problem…moving too fast without fact checking!
Stalk your stalker, because that is the ONLY way you will determine the mood of your future relationship! If you didn’t read "5 signs that he’s a loser" in our Dec ’07 issue, then you should definitely catch that for signs to look for on the first date. If you actually made it past THAT first date milestone into the longer stretch of building your casual ’thang’ into a serious ’thing’ here are some pointer’s to keep it real.
Pay attention! So often we are enamored with the acts of the rendezvous that we don’t pay attention to the early warning signs. Good steady research of personality compatibility- each other’s likes and dislikes, morals, and personal habits- will let you know how far the relationship can go. Most overlook mid-relationship signs in the hopes it is just a phase that will change. Ever heard the saying you can’t change a tiger’s stripes? If you like a little hanky spanky and he is a straight lace, odds are you aren’t going home with a pink hinny honey!
Separate Lives! Missing mid-relationship signs often leads to clingy or over bearing actions on one or both of your parts trying to ’force’ a change of behavior. You end up spending an enormous amount of time together in early to mid stages of the relationship, eclipsing your lives. If you can’t be ’their everything’ and still lead separate lives, you are in for a pain in Uranus! This will lead to chaos and calamity that you have a hard time shaking in the end!
Background Checks! I can’t ever say this enough! Listen to me kiddies, seriously!!! Are you setting yourself up to be the victim of a serial dater? Listen to their dating history! You do the math and be sure to make a subtraction in time to save your heart! They will give you all the clues, if you let them. Don’t ignore trouble signs that are sure to manifest later because you are having a good time now!
Cut Loose! Don’t be afraid to cut your losses! Many people feel they have invested time and energy, blah, blah, blah and they continue after the relationship should be fini’! You are only elongating the death of the situation, and while it may not seem like misery now it will be one day if you continue in an incompatible situation. Wouldn’t it be happier to end on a more contented note now, then later when things go south? Then you won’t end up with that pain in the rear problem, but maybe a friend you can rear-end later!
So, there is my take on keeping a happy and healthy stalker free relationship! This is Tiger RoxXx saying take care of each other by taking care of your self first!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Now onto our lessons…
Everyone has been in one of THOSE relationships! The one’s that start off feeling warm and fuzzy and then end up with having to have a 200lb hemorrhoid removed from your touché! But how did it happen???
More than likely you went from dating to relationship in 5.2 seconds without checking your early warning signs. Whether it’s a crotch scratching fella or bon bon eating lass, it is sure that there was one common factor in your posterior problem…moving too fast without fact checking!
Stalk your stalker, because that is the ONLY way you will determine the mood of your future relationship! If you didn’t read "5 signs that he’s a loser" in our Dec ’07 issue, then you should definitely catch that for signs to look for on the first date. If you actually made it past THAT first date milestone into the longer stretch of building your casual ’thang’ into a serious ’thing’ here are some pointer’s to keep it real.
Pay attention! So often we are enamored with the acts of the rendezvous that we don’t pay attention to the early warning signs. Good steady research of personality compatibility- each other’s likes and dislikes, morals, and personal habits- will let you know how far the relationship can go. Most overlook mid-relationship signs in the hopes it is just a phase that will change. Ever heard the saying you can’t change a tiger’s stripes? If you like a little hanky spanky and he is a straight lace, odds are you aren’t going home with a pink hinny honey!
Separate Lives! Missing mid-relationship signs often leads to clingy or over bearing actions on one or both of your parts trying to ’force’ a change of behavior. You end up spending an enormous amount of time together in early to mid stages of the relationship, eclipsing your lives. If you can’t be ’their everything’ and still lead separate lives, you are in for a pain in Uranus! This will lead to chaos and calamity that you have a hard time shaking in the end!
Background Checks! I can’t ever say this enough! Listen to me kiddies, seriously!!! Are you setting yourself up to be the victim of a serial dater? Listen to their dating history! You do the math and be sure to make a subtraction in time to save your heart! They will give you all the clues, if you let them. Don’t ignore trouble signs that are sure to manifest later because you are having a good time now!
Cut Loose! Don’t be afraid to cut your losses! Many people feel they have invested time and energy, blah, blah, blah and they continue after the relationship should be fini’! You are only elongating the death of the situation, and while it may not seem like misery now it will be one day if you continue in an incompatible situation. Wouldn’t it be happier to end on a more contented note now, then later when things go south? Then you won’t end up with that pain in the rear problem, but maybe a friend you can rear-end later!
So, there is my take on keeping a happy and healthy stalker free relationship! This is Tiger RoxXx saying take care of each other by taking care of your self first!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Don't cheat on yourself...
Bonjour my sweets! It's your favorite spicy kitten here with my never ending saucy words of wisdom. We are coming into one of my favorite times of year when the weather gets warm and you kiddies go on the prowl. "Mating Season" as we have so playfully dubbed it! Clothes get smaller, bars and clubs get hotter, and everyone gets….well- together more often.
A symptom of this amazing phenomenon is that those snuggly and comfy winter nesting relationships start to thaw and feel a little too mushy for some. What is worse is that instead of doing the right thing and shedding those winter hook up blues, people hang on while they begin sniffing the fresh spring daisies. So this little number is all about that taboo subject of cheating on yourself.
We all know it happens, it happens all the time. As a matter of fact you can probably name at least one friend, relative, if not yourself who is fooling themselves and everyone else into to thinking they are in a relationship. According to Therapist Peggy Vaugn 60% of men and 40% of women will have an affair at some point. So before you go shaking your head, pointing your finger, or spitting some bad line this mating season let's think about this. Who really gets hurt in these situations?
Man, that's deep! Right? I mean, it's great to have a warm sure thing back in bed waiting in case what you are trying to score doesn't work out, but what if it does… you either have a one night stand or two sure things, and that is a whole article in itself. (I'll think about it) I am not just playing pity on your sweet hearted girl, or too nice boy- both of which don't deserve the treatment- I am saying think about your friends who have to lie for you, and the innocents who have no clue they are in on it with you, and then there is the most important person of all YOU.
Why not just be single? I mean, I know when I am playing the field it is a lot easier to do because I am keeping my eye on the ball, not glancing over my shoulder waiting to be sideswiped.
Are you trying to use the old tired line that it's hearts you are worried about breaking? Then think about the difference between a peaceful break-up because you just aren't feeling it and your love's sensation that some one is rejected them because their love just found a taste of honey that was sweeter. A little pain now can save you a whole lot of headache (and probably some property damage) later!
You may be compounded under the crush of the societal view that you have to be in a relationship. Be in love with yourself first! Maybe it's just my rebellious attitude, but I would like to know if I am attaching myself to a person it's not because I played dollhouse when I was a little girl but because I have true feeling that will last…at least until the desert. By knowing that I can be single and OK with it I am sure when I do find that desert mate, it will be for all the right sticky reasons!
Are you complaining that you just aren't getting what you need from your mate? Then why stay with them while looking for it somewhere else? That is the perfect opportunity to hit the bricks and play the field. Explore all the opportunities of the wonderful world of being single and get to know YOU! Don't settle just to have someone and learn to be happy with being single. (Oh, and the more you look the less you will find, it's a common rule in the single's guide.)
If we explore all the 'reasons' to cheat… intimacy issues, lack of pleasure in certain areas, the need for attention, self esteem problems, the list goes on and on … it all boils down to one plain fact to me – work it out or leave. There is no reason to cheat! Cheating only causes other different kinds of messes to clean up. So you really are hurting yourself most of all, you lose someone you once thought enough about to make yours, even if for a short time. You misplace a little bit of yourself, and you screw things up with your inner circle and that is no way to get a spanking!
So, my love kittens, this is Tiger RoxXx with my slightly harsher words for this month of the bump and grind. Don't let me catch ya out there being bad kitty's!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
A symptom of this amazing phenomenon is that those snuggly and comfy winter nesting relationships start to thaw and feel a little too mushy for some. What is worse is that instead of doing the right thing and shedding those winter hook up blues, people hang on while they begin sniffing the fresh spring daisies. So this little number is all about that taboo subject of cheating on yourself.
We all know it happens, it happens all the time. As a matter of fact you can probably name at least one friend, relative, if not yourself who is fooling themselves and everyone else into to thinking they are in a relationship. According to Therapist Peggy Vaugn 60% of men and 40% of women will have an affair at some point. So before you go shaking your head, pointing your finger, or spitting some bad line this mating season let's think about this. Who really gets hurt in these situations?
Man, that's deep! Right? I mean, it's great to have a warm sure thing back in bed waiting in case what you are trying to score doesn't work out, but what if it does… you either have a one night stand or two sure things, and that is a whole article in itself. (I'll think about it) I am not just playing pity on your sweet hearted girl, or too nice boy- both of which don't deserve the treatment- I am saying think about your friends who have to lie for you, and the innocents who have no clue they are in on it with you, and then there is the most important person of all YOU.
Why not just be single? I mean, I know when I am playing the field it is a lot easier to do because I am keeping my eye on the ball, not glancing over my shoulder waiting to be sideswiped.
Are you trying to use the old tired line that it's hearts you are worried about breaking? Then think about the difference between a peaceful break-up because you just aren't feeling it and your love's sensation that some one is rejected them because their love just found a taste of honey that was sweeter. A little pain now can save you a whole lot of headache (and probably some property damage) later!
You may be compounded under the crush of the societal view that you have to be in a relationship. Be in love with yourself first! Maybe it's just my rebellious attitude, but I would like to know if I am attaching myself to a person it's not because I played dollhouse when I was a little girl but because I have true feeling that will last…at least until the desert. By knowing that I can be single and OK with it I am sure when I do find that desert mate, it will be for all the right sticky reasons!
Are you complaining that you just aren't getting what you need from your mate? Then why stay with them while looking for it somewhere else? That is the perfect opportunity to hit the bricks and play the field. Explore all the opportunities of the wonderful world of being single and get to know YOU! Don't settle just to have someone and learn to be happy with being single. (Oh, and the more you look the less you will find, it's a common rule in the single's guide.)
If we explore all the 'reasons' to cheat… intimacy issues, lack of pleasure in certain areas, the need for attention, self esteem problems, the list goes on and on … it all boils down to one plain fact to me – work it out or leave. There is no reason to cheat! Cheating only causes other different kinds of messes to clean up. So you really are hurting yourself most of all, you lose someone you once thought enough about to make yours, even if for a short time. You misplace a little bit of yourself, and you screw things up with your inner circle and that is no way to get a spanking!
So, my love kittens, this is Tiger RoxXx with my slightly harsher words for this month of the bump and grind. Don't let me catch ya out there being bad kitty's!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
How to get dumped... a getting over it guide!
Happy May My Sweets! It is your purring pal here with some tasty treats of advice having to do with those uncomfortable times that no one wants to talk about- no, not THOSE times- I am talking about getting dumped! We can pretty it up any way you want but it all hurts the same. The separation anxiety, the anger, the thoughts of what you did wrong, maybe even a little fight to get your 'prize' back… well I am here to help!
May is the month of flowers, out with the old in with the new, and rebirths! (and my Birthday!) That is why we should focus on how to get over those things that have been holding us back from moving in a positive direction! Here are five rules to having a successful break-up!
First rule of getting dumped (or breaking up- however you should look at it) is to accept it- own your release! Follow the same steps you would as if they were moving far far away with no way to contact them – forever! Deal with it, know it, believe it! Don't make up some fantasy that this fact will change, there are much better things to fantasize about!
The second rule is to make you the most important person that you love! We all want a rebound fling or a get better thing to take our mind of the situation, but in reality this only prolongs the healing process. It can also displace the self love that you desperately need at this point in the game. Everybody needs a body sometimes, but you are too vulnerable and may end up risking emotions and self if you jump into any type of relationship- even casual!
Third Rule is to understand what your relationship was like- good and bad! Look at both sides of the story and don't play the blame game. Who cares at this point who said what, when, where, or why- the point is it's over and you can move to love yourself and have even more fun! At least that way you know all about the person you are in love with!
The Fourth Rule is No Peeking! In this age of the electronic social overexposure stopping by to peek at what your ex has been up to is all too easy. You should definitely stick to a strict eyes/hands/computers off policy to keep your mind clear and recovering. Distancing yourself right now in every aspect is the only way! There are some many other fun things to peek at on the net anyway!
Rule number Five is visualizing yourself going through all the steps of the breakup and coming out on the other end happier than ever, feeling spectacular! Odds are the wonderful you is better off without the old them anyway!
So, don't be sorry that it's over ~ be happy that it happened and move on! I am Tiger RoxXx saying "That's my cake, kiddies, and you can eat it too!" Hope to see you out and about for some Birthday celebrations around the town!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
May is the month of flowers, out with the old in with the new, and rebirths! (and my Birthday!) That is why we should focus on how to get over those things that have been holding us back from moving in a positive direction! Here are five rules to having a successful break-up!
First rule of getting dumped (or breaking up- however you should look at it) is to accept it- own your release! Follow the same steps you would as if they were moving far far away with no way to contact them – forever! Deal with it, know it, believe it! Don't make up some fantasy that this fact will change, there are much better things to fantasize about!
The second rule is to make you the most important person that you love! We all want a rebound fling or a get better thing to take our mind of the situation, but in reality this only prolongs the healing process. It can also displace the self love that you desperately need at this point in the game. Everybody needs a body sometimes, but you are too vulnerable and may end up risking emotions and self if you jump into any type of relationship- even casual!
Third Rule is to understand what your relationship was like- good and bad! Look at both sides of the story and don't play the blame game. Who cares at this point who said what, when, where, or why- the point is it's over and you can move to love yourself and have even more fun! At least that way you know all about the person you are in love with!
The Fourth Rule is No Peeking! In this age of the electronic social overexposure stopping by to peek at what your ex has been up to is all too easy. You should definitely stick to a strict eyes/hands/computers off policy to keep your mind clear and recovering. Distancing yourself right now in every aspect is the only way! There are some many other fun things to peek at on the net anyway!
Rule number Five is visualizing yourself going through all the steps of the breakup and coming out on the other end happier than ever, feeling spectacular! Odds are the wonderful you is better off without the old them anyway!
So, don't be sorry that it's over ~ be happy that it happened and move on! I am Tiger RoxXx saying "That's my cake, kiddies, and you can eat it too!" Hope to see you out and about for some Birthday celebrations around the town!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
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