Love Sick- When Romance makes you Ill

Love Sick- When Romance makes you Ill…by Tiger RoxXx

Hi there my lovelies! It’s your sharp toothed feline friend here with a few words to sink your teeth into. We are creeping into the dog days of summer, and as the heat grows so can the passion of the season. This little number is about that crazy thing called love, and how it can get out of control. “Crazy…Crazy in love with you!” That is how the song goes, right? You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you can’t think of anything but your love. Well, what is fine as wine and what is that one step that puts you over the edge? Let’s talk about it!

Most people want someone they can share a part of themselves with, open up to, be a part of- but what happens when that connection of selves blurs your lives? Love addiction is a serious problem that is often over looked in relationships. (“she’s pyscho…he’s possesive”) We have all had those bad relationship’s, I talk about them all the time, but what happens when you turn that person into a focal point and the love goes bad? It happens more than you know.

Love Addiction affects a person like any other impulse action except that it has to do with love and sexual interactions. Since ‘love’ is part of the addiction people often don’t understand the dangers involved in the situation. A person may fall so deeply they react and act differently then they would in a normal situation, becoming obsessed with a person and the connecting interactive situations. This does not necessary stem from their lover- don’t get it twisted, mister, it wasn’t about you- but about life situation they were lacking at the time. A love addict can also carry those habits into other relationships, once the traits are learned.

So, are you nervous yet? Are you looking around to see if you are the addict or your love? Well, here are some signs:

Do you lack trust in any relationship?
Do you need a partner in order to feel worthy?
Are you tolerant of excessive behavior?
Do you have several addictions?
Do you believe love is the same thing as sex?

So now what? Well with any style of addiction you have to recognize and decide you want to make a change. Then go to the root of the issue, because like I said it’s not the love it’s the addict… what is the addict lacking that needs to be filled with the obessive love. Then seek help because this is a serious matter. Love addiction can lead to dramatic and aggressive behavior if the addict is not responded to properly. Talk to someone about it, keep yourself in check!

Well, my tasty treats, those are my words of wisdom for this month of heat!

Meow Baby,

Tiger RoxXx