R~E~S~P~E~C~T …. by Tiger RoxXx
Well hello there my little love kittens! It's your happy go lucky tiger here with an article all about the R~E~S~P~E~C~T! Find out what it means to me! You know it's what you want, so baby you better have it. Well, that was fun- but seriously dolls, let's talk about having a little respect.
There are so many different levels to this topic that I may need to write a series. I'll hit the main floor running and then see where this leads us, K? So my bitty love birds, let's get out our lil' black book of values and see where you might fall short.
R~ Representation
Whether tryst or marriage you should never be ashamed of being with that person. Your love toy should be someone you would stand beside without worry. This doesn't mean you have to post your business on the Internet, make blogs about it, or yell it at the top of the rooftops. Love is love baby, but in two weeks when it sours and a new one enters it may make for more interesting reading.
E~ Enjoy
Rule number nine is “If it's not fun, don't do it!” in the Tiger RoxXx book of respect! When it stops being enjoyable a decision of self-respect needs to be made. It is no good to you or them if you have worked on it, it failed, and you keep trying to resuscitate. Just let it go.
S~ Safety
OK, I am gonna just say it. Use protection. Respect your body enough to keep it safe and disease free. Always! Don't make excuses to yourself, or take excuses from someone else. That moment in time is nothing compared to what could happen to your body for an eternity!
P~ Picky
Choose who you get involved with wisely. This is a lesson everyone should learn. Biologically humans are programmed to attach to people they have sex with. The more intimate you are the more attached you become. Respect yourself enough to not allow an attachment with someone you are not compatible with, much less someone you can't stand to have a meal with.
E~ Entertaining
I like milk, do you? There must be more than the fact you both breathe and eat in common to make a respectful bond. I mean some times a good ole roll in the hay is awesome, but at some point you may want to actually talk. This will be impossible with no mutual interest points. Having no real commonalities means one talks and one pretends to listen. This is not a conversation.
C~ Compassion
Sex is sex, that is true... but even the most tawdry encounters should have a little give and take. Sharing is caring doll, so be sure that you respect the coupling with mutual reciprocation. If you can't treat that person the way you want them to treat you, then you are cheating yourself.
T~ Time
“I just want your extra time and your... KISS”. Serious, Fling, or in between your plaything should make a little time for you. It needs to be a mutual agreement how much, when, and where. If they can't respect your reasonable needs of interaction then they don't respect you at all. Period! You both have to be willing to invest a little to get your returns.
So loves, this is the tip of the R~E~S~P~E~C~T iceberg. Keep these things in mind when you are mating. Just remember~ what you do with your body, mind, and life is your choice... and ultimately your responsibility. Why waste it? Respect yourself enough to do what you want and need!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
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Showing posts with label dumped. Show all posts
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Saturday, August 8, 2009
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Get Over It
Get over it… by Tiger RoxXx
Hi there my delicate little tasty treats. It’s Tiger RoxXx, your luscious hungry kitten, here to talk about getting over it! We all have wanted to say it, we have all tried to do it, and we all would love to know the secret solution to drink to make it happen… but it’s just not that easy! So you had that fling that turned into a thing, huh? AND now your tasty little morsel soured right in your mouth leaving you wanting more? Don’t worry- it happens, it’s what you do at this point that matters.
I thought I would give you five starter steps to expel that vile taste from your mouth for good! I know, I know, it’s a little salty and somewhat slimy, and nobody likes it for sure. But once you get rid of it then you can start looking for something more pleasing to your appetite.
Tasty Tip #1 Don’t Doubletake. Whether it’s your decision to leave, their decision to call it quits, or how the whole thing went down… just stop. Trying to go back and fix things, in your head or in real life, bogs you down and is sour grapes! Move only forward, never move back. You can’t fix something you don’t have all the pieces to.
Tasty Tip #2 Be a Hater. Yeppers, I said it. Feel your pain, know it, live it… then get over it. But if you pretend like you were never hurt you will hold pain forever. Chew it up, spit it out, and take a bite of something else. It’s for your good and everyone’s involved. Did you get screwed over? be MAD! You have a right, then it’s up to you to move on. No one can fix it for you.
Tasty Tip #3 Stay Away. Even the best of breakups need some down time. If you try to ‘stay friends’ then you will re-live the moment of the break up over and over. If that truly is your goal, and who are you kidding- it’s not, then a few weeks apart will do wonders. Otherwise, just stay away completely. No midnight texts, no biting emails, no sappy sorries, just NO!
Tasty Tip #4 Get a Support Group. Make a gravy train of folks you can call when you want to pick up the phone to your tart. Have group date night where no one brings their squeeze and everyone is stag. Get involved with your friends and allow them to be involved with you. There is safety in numbers.
Tasty Tip #5 Get Over It! Then just do it. Allow yourself to be happy, move on, and celebrate YOU! You so very much deserve all you want in life, and you should recognize that fact. Love yourself… yes, like that… and every other way too! Give yourself the gift of letting go of something that damaged you.
So my little cupcakes, those are the beginnings to getting over it. Do it, I dare you. That will allow for so much more fun in the future, and who knows what that will bring! We all want a lil’ fun, right?
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
PS Check my new website www.meowbabe.com
Hi there my delicate little tasty treats. It’s Tiger RoxXx, your luscious hungry kitten, here to talk about getting over it! We all have wanted to say it, we have all tried to do it, and we all would love to know the secret solution to drink to make it happen… but it’s just not that easy! So you had that fling that turned into a thing, huh? AND now your tasty little morsel soured right in your mouth leaving you wanting more? Don’t worry- it happens, it’s what you do at this point that matters.
I thought I would give you five starter steps to expel that vile taste from your mouth for good! I know, I know, it’s a little salty and somewhat slimy, and nobody likes it for sure. But once you get rid of it then you can start looking for something more pleasing to your appetite.
Tasty Tip #1 Don’t Doubletake. Whether it’s your decision to leave, their decision to call it quits, or how the whole thing went down… just stop. Trying to go back and fix things, in your head or in real life, bogs you down and is sour grapes! Move only forward, never move back. You can’t fix something you don’t have all the pieces to.
Tasty Tip #2 Be a Hater. Yeppers, I said it. Feel your pain, know it, live it… then get over it. But if you pretend like you were never hurt you will hold pain forever. Chew it up, spit it out, and take a bite of something else. It’s for your good and everyone’s involved. Did you get screwed over? be MAD! You have a right, then it’s up to you to move on. No one can fix it for you.
Tasty Tip #3 Stay Away. Even the best of breakups need some down time. If you try to ‘stay friends’ then you will re-live the moment of the break up over and over. If that truly is your goal, and who are you kidding- it’s not, then a few weeks apart will do wonders. Otherwise, just stay away completely. No midnight texts, no biting emails, no sappy sorries, just NO!
Tasty Tip #4 Get a Support Group. Make a gravy train of folks you can call when you want to pick up the phone to your tart. Have group date night where no one brings their squeeze and everyone is stag. Get involved with your friends and allow them to be involved with you. There is safety in numbers.
Tasty Tip #5 Get Over It! Then just do it. Allow yourself to be happy, move on, and celebrate YOU! You so very much deserve all you want in life, and you should recognize that fact. Love yourself… yes, like that… and every other way too! Give yourself the gift of letting go of something that damaged you.
So my little cupcakes, those are the beginnings to getting over it. Do it, I dare you. That will allow for so much more fun in the future, and who knows what that will bring! We all want a lil’ fun, right?
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
PS Check my new website www.meowbabe.com
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
How to get dumped... a getting over it guide!
Happy May My Sweets! It is your purring pal here with some tasty treats of advice having to do with those uncomfortable times that no one wants to talk about- no, not THOSE times- I am talking about getting dumped! We can pretty it up any way you want but it all hurts the same. The separation anxiety, the anger, the thoughts of what you did wrong, maybe even a little fight to get your 'prize' back… well I am here to help!
May is the month of flowers, out with the old in with the new, and rebirths! (and my Birthday!) That is why we should focus on how to get over those things that have been holding us back from moving in a positive direction! Here are five rules to having a successful break-up!
First rule of getting dumped (or breaking up- however you should look at it) is to accept it- own your release! Follow the same steps you would as if they were moving far far away with no way to contact them – forever! Deal with it, know it, believe it! Don't make up some fantasy that this fact will change, there are much better things to fantasize about!
The second rule is to make you the most important person that you love! We all want a rebound fling or a get better thing to take our mind of the situation, but in reality this only prolongs the healing process. It can also displace the self love that you desperately need at this point in the game. Everybody needs a body sometimes, but you are too vulnerable and may end up risking emotions and self if you jump into any type of relationship- even casual!
Third Rule is to understand what your relationship was like- good and bad! Look at both sides of the story and don't play the blame game. Who cares at this point who said what, when, where, or why- the point is it's over and you can move to love yourself and have even more fun! At least that way you know all about the person you are in love with!
The Fourth Rule is No Peeking! In this age of the electronic social overexposure stopping by to peek at what your ex has been up to is all too easy. You should definitely stick to a strict eyes/hands/computers off policy to keep your mind clear and recovering. Distancing yourself right now in every aspect is the only way! There are some many other fun things to peek at on the net anyway!
Rule number Five is visualizing yourself going through all the steps of the breakup and coming out on the other end happier than ever, feeling spectacular! Odds are the wonderful you is better off without the old them anyway!
So, don't be sorry that it's over ~ be happy that it happened and move on! I am Tiger RoxXx saying "That's my cake, kiddies, and you can eat it too!" Hope to see you out and about for some Birthday celebrations around the town!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
May is the month of flowers, out with the old in with the new, and rebirths! (and my Birthday!) That is why we should focus on how to get over those things that have been holding us back from moving in a positive direction! Here are five rules to having a successful break-up!
First rule of getting dumped (or breaking up- however you should look at it) is to accept it- own your release! Follow the same steps you would as if they were moving far far away with no way to contact them – forever! Deal with it, know it, believe it! Don't make up some fantasy that this fact will change, there are much better things to fantasize about!
The second rule is to make you the most important person that you love! We all want a rebound fling or a get better thing to take our mind of the situation, but in reality this only prolongs the healing process. It can also displace the self love that you desperately need at this point in the game. Everybody needs a body sometimes, but you are too vulnerable and may end up risking emotions and self if you jump into any type of relationship- even casual!
Third Rule is to understand what your relationship was like- good and bad! Look at both sides of the story and don't play the blame game. Who cares at this point who said what, when, where, or why- the point is it's over and you can move to love yourself and have even more fun! At least that way you know all about the person you are in love with!
The Fourth Rule is No Peeking! In this age of the electronic social overexposure stopping by to peek at what your ex has been up to is all too easy. You should definitely stick to a strict eyes/hands/computers off policy to keep your mind clear and recovering. Distancing yourself right now in every aspect is the only way! There are some many other fun things to peek at on the net anyway!
Rule number Five is visualizing yourself going through all the steps of the breakup and coming out on the other end happier than ever, feeling spectacular! Odds are the wonderful you is better off without the old them anyway!
So, don't be sorry that it's over ~ be happy that it happened and move on! I am Tiger RoxXx saying "That's my cake, kiddies, and you can eat it too!" Hope to see you out and about for some Birthday celebrations around the town!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
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