He said, She heard by Tiger RoxXx

He said, She heard

Hello my darlings, it is your favorite vicious kitten here to talk about the most common mistake you lads and lass's make when it comes to coming together. Bad communication! I see it on the streets and in the bars, and have even been a victim of it myself at times. Why is it so common? Why such an issue? Men and women speak different languages, listen differently, and comprehend in totally separate manners. So what is the deal?

Men seem to speak one language, the one of carnal urges,while women speak the ancient art of the unspoken word.SO how do we get the two worlds to meet? Thinking you had made yourself clear, and somehow, someway, the earsyou were whispering in misread your signals! Whether it is the commonly dreaded "I'm OK!" to the unspoken languagethat he should just KNOW! There is one thing that is for sure- if you do not speak your mind clearly you will not be heard.

So here are your Tiger Tidbits to be sure we are all speaking the same jive talk!

1) Communication is more than just talking. You have to be sure to make your statement in clear, concise, and easyto understand manner. Put it in a way that would take away any feelings of negativity, even if saying things that the otherperson may not like or agree with. Keep the ears you are speaking to as open as your mouth, so other avenues will stay open as well.

2) Listening is key. In order to have open communication it must be two sided. That means listen as well as speak. Donot just hear, but understand what your cutie is saying. Be open to hear the whole story no matter what it is, and they will be open to your stories as well.

3) Confirm. If you have any questions at all, or think you are missing something - ask. Also, if you feel the least bit up-set by what your sweetheart is saying, make sure you know. You may have misunderstood. It's better to ask and let a fire start in the right place later than keep your mouth shutwhile flames of anger burn bright.

4) Be yourself. Don't change your views, self, or attitudes to blend towards your mate - eventually your true opinions will surface. Put your real opinion forward so your little lovie will know what you think- like it, love it, or don't want to take it they have a right to hear it and maketheir own decisions.

5) Chit chat. Don't always talk about serious stuff. Especially in long term relationships cohorts seem to discuss business only. Be sure to keep an open line of communication and playfulness through spontaneous chit chat.

So that is my communication to you my loves, you know I like to keep it flowing! Now go out and spread the word!

Meow Baby,

Tiger RoxXx