Saturday, August 8, 2009

R~E~S~P~E~C~T

R~E~S~P~E~C~T …. by Tiger RoxXx

Well hello there my little love kittens! It's your happy go lucky tiger here with an article all about the R~E~S~P~E~C~T! Find out what it means to me! You know it's what you want, so baby you better have it. Well, that was fun- but seriously dolls, let's talk about having a little respect.

There are so many different levels to this topic that I may need to write a series. I'll hit the main floor running and then see where this leads us, K? So my bitty love birds, let's get out our lil' black book of values and see where you might fall short.

R~ Representation
Whether tryst or marriage you should never be ashamed of being with that person. Your love toy should be someone you would stand beside without worry. This doesn't mean you have to post your business on the Internet, make blogs about it, or yell it at the top of the rooftops. Love is love baby, but in two weeks when it sours and a new one enters it may make for more interesting reading.

E~ Enjoy
Rule number nine is “If it's not fun, don't do it!” in the Tiger RoxXx book of respect! When it stops being enjoyable a decision of self-respect needs to be made. It is no good to you or them if you have worked on it, it failed, and you keep trying to resuscitate. Just let it go.

S~ Safety
OK, I am gonna just say it. Use protection. Respect your body enough to keep it safe and disease free. Always! Don't make excuses to yourself, or take excuses from someone else. That moment in time is nothing compared to what could happen to your body for an eternity!

P~ Picky
Choose who you get involved with wisely. This is a lesson everyone should learn. Biologically humans are programmed to attach to people they have sex with. The more intimate you are the more attached you become. Respect yourself enough to not allow an attachment with someone you are not compatible with, much less someone you can't stand to have a meal with.

E~ Entertaining
I like milk, do you? There must be more than the fact you both breathe and eat in common to make a respectful bond. I mean some times a good ole roll in the hay is awesome, but at some point you may want to actually talk. This will be impossible with no mutual interest points. Having no real commonalities means one talks and one pretends to listen. This is not a conversation.

C~ Compassion
Sex is sex, that is true... but even the most tawdry encounters should have a little give and take. Sharing is caring doll, so be sure that you respect the coupling with mutual reciprocation. If you can't treat that person the way you want them to treat you, then you are cheating yourself.

T~ Time
“I just want your extra time and your... KISS”. Serious, Fling, or in between your plaything should make a little time for you. It needs to be a mutual agreement how much, when, and where. If they can't respect your reasonable needs of interaction then they don't respect you at all. Period! You both have to be willing to invest a little to get your returns.

So loves, this is the tip of the R~E~S~P~E~C~T iceberg. Keep these things in mind when you are mating. Just remember~ what you do with your body, mind, and life is your choice... and ultimately your responsibility. Why waste it? Respect yourself enough to do what you want and need!

Meow Baby,

Tiger RoxXx

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