Monday, January 12, 2009

5 guys you should never date….

5 guys you should never date….by Tiger RoxXx

Happy New Year my lovely purring pretties! I thought I would start this year off right with a little something that could help you all know what you should, or more over, shouldn't look for in this optimistic New Year. My feline heart had to giggle when writing this article, because I am sure some careless cad's eyes popped wide when seeing the title to this little number - but I will not call out individuals but character traits that you should avoid.

So for you gents whose peepers cross this page, take note's love, does this sound like you?

Mr. Wrong #1: The Controller. There are tasty times in life when a man taking charge is just the thing a girl needs. The Controller believes that he has the power to dictate what you wear, where you go, who your friends are, or many other aspects of your life. Initially it may seem like dedicated interest, but before long he will have you tucked away in his little world as yours disappears.

Mr. Wrong #2: The Sulker. Negative people suck… and not in a good way. Unfortunately there are some poor souls who live for it. Keep your distance from The Sulker because he will try to envelope you in his negativity and gloom. If you don't fall prey to it you will surely be sore trying to pull him out of the pits of doom.

Mr. Wrong #3: The Liar. We all know that The Liar is one to keep away from but unfortunately it seems this is impossible for some. Once the mistruth trend starts it is hard to erase. Some men feel pushed to deceive when asked a lot of pointed questions, if unrealistic expectations are set, or you react poorly to the truth. This by no means makes it right, but it implies that the two of you will always have that style of interaction and I can think of much better ways to relate.

Mr. Wrong #4: The Player. If you know you are looking for a relationship The Player is like kryptonite to your cause. While I believe that playing games is a great past time, all the characters should know the rules if they are involved. If your love interest is a player when you meet then don't think this habit is going to fade fast. Steer clear from these guys unless all you are after is a good time.

Mr. Wrong #5: The Fiend. The Fiend is the guy who is always after your cash. He is always borrowing, begging, and let's hope not stealing to handle his business and we all know that is not sexy. It is all too easy for him take advantage of a gesture and never appreciate your kindness. The Fiend will have many excuses and few contributions to the relationship. We all know it is better to give and to receive, right?

Watch out for these Mr. Wrong's so you can leave room for Mr. Right. So my New Year's Babies these are my cautions to you. Don't settle for less because you deserve the best and let's make 2009 a sexy, fun filled, healthy, happy new year!!!

Meow Baby,

Tiger RoxXx