Sunday, May 10, 2009

Get Over It

Get over it… by Tiger RoxXx

Hi there my delicate little tasty treats. It’s Tiger RoxXx, your luscious hungry kitten, here to talk about getting over it! We all have wanted to say it, we have all tried to do it, and we all would love to know the secret solution to drink to make it happen… but it’s just not that easy! So you had that fling that turned into a thing, huh? AND now your tasty little morsel soured right in your mouth leaving you wanting more? Don’t worry- it happens, it’s what you do at this point that matters.

I thought I would give you five starter steps to expel that vile taste from your mouth for good! I know, I know, it’s a little salty and somewhat slimy, and nobody likes it for sure. But once you get rid of it then you can start looking for something more pleasing to your appetite.

Tasty Tip #1 Don’t Doubletake. Whether it’s your decision to leave, their decision to call it quits, or how the whole thing went down… just stop. Trying to go back and fix things, in your head or in real life, bogs you down and is sour grapes! Move only forward, never move back. You can’t fix something you don’t have all the pieces to.

Tasty Tip #2 Be a Hater. Yeppers, I said it. Feel your pain, know it, live it… then get over it. But if you pretend like you were never hurt you will hold pain forever. Chew it up, spit it out, and take a bite of something else. It’s for your good and everyone’s involved. Did you get screwed over? be MAD! You have a right, then it’s up to you to move on. No one can fix it for you.

Tasty Tip #3 Stay Away. Even the best of breakups need some down time. If you try to ‘stay friends’ then you will re-live the moment of the break up over and over. If that truly is your goal, and who are you kidding- it’s not, then a few weeks apart will do wonders. Otherwise, just stay away completely. No midnight texts, no biting emails, no sappy sorries, just NO!

Tasty Tip #4 Get a Support Group. Make a gravy train of folks you can call when you want to pick up the phone to your tart. Have group date night where no one brings their squeeze and everyone is stag. Get involved with your friends and allow them to be involved with you. There is safety in numbers.

Tasty Tip #5 Get Over It! Then just do it. Allow yourself to be happy, move on, and celebrate YOU! You so very much deserve all you want in life, and you should recognize that fact. Love yourself… yes, like that… and every other way too! Give yourself the gift of letting go of something that damaged you.

So my little cupcakes, those are the beginnings to getting over it. Do it, I dare you. That will allow for so much more fun in the future, and who knows what that will bring! We all want a lil’ fun, right?
Meow Baby,

Tiger RoxXx

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