Get over it… by Tiger RoxXx
Hi there my delicate little tasty treats. It’s Tiger RoxXx, your luscious hungry kitten, here to talk about getting over it! We all have wanted to say it, we have all tried to do it, and we all would love to know the secret solution to drink to make it happen… but it’s just not that easy! So you had that fling that turned into a thing, huh? AND now your tasty little morsel soured right in your mouth leaving you wanting more? Don’t worry- it happens, it’s what you do at this point that matters.
I thought I would give you five starter steps to expel that vile taste from your mouth for good! I know, I know, it’s a little salty and somewhat slimy, and nobody likes it for sure. But once you get rid of it then you can start looking for something more pleasing to your appetite.
Tasty Tip #1 Don’t Doubletake. Whether it’s your decision to leave, their decision to call it quits, or how the whole thing went down… just stop. Trying to go back and fix things, in your head or in real life, bogs you down and is sour grapes! Move only forward, never move back. You can’t fix something you don’t have all the pieces to.
Tasty Tip #2 Be a Hater. Yeppers, I said it. Feel your pain, know it, live it… then get over it. But if you pretend like you were never hurt you will hold pain forever. Chew it up, spit it out, and take a bite of something else. It’s for your good and everyone’s involved. Did you get screwed over? be MAD! You have a right, then it’s up to you to move on. No one can fix it for you.
Tasty Tip #3 Stay Away. Even the best of breakups need some down time. If you try to ‘stay friends’ then you will re-live the moment of the break up over and over. If that truly is your goal, and who are you kidding- it’s not, then a few weeks apart will do wonders. Otherwise, just stay away completely. No midnight texts, no biting emails, no sappy sorries, just NO!
Tasty Tip #4 Get a Support Group. Make a gravy train of folks you can call when you want to pick up the phone to your tart. Have group date night where no one brings their squeeze and everyone is stag. Get involved with your friends and allow them to be involved with you. There is safety in numbers.
Tasty Tip #5 Get Over It! Then just do it. Allow yourself to be happy, move on, and celebrate YOU! You so very much deserve all you want in life, and you should recognize that fact. Love yourself… yes, like that… and every other way too! Give yourself the gift of letting go of something that damaged you.
So my little cupcakes, those are the beginnings to getting over it. Do it, I dare you. That will allow for so much more fun in the future, and who knows what that will bring! We all want a lil’ fun, right?
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
PS Check my new website www.meowbabe.com
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Friday, April 10, 2009
Relationship 101
Relationship 101 by Tiger RoxXx
Well hello there my lovely spring flowers! It's your favorite smitten kitten on a mission to ensure your spring showers turn into some summer lovin'!
So you had that little itch that you were looking for someone to scratch... and maybe you found a suitable set of hands that felt just right in those special spots. How are you going to make sure that things don't go south and you end up with the hives? That's what I'm here for- a lil relationship 101.
Every good relationship needs some foundation laid as it's built. So before you start trying to reap what you sow make sure you know what to plant. These are Tiger RoxXx's tips to building a great relationship.
Make sure you can dig it. You have to be compatible- it's just that simple. No matter how good your first few encounters were if you have nothing in common, your beliefs/goals differ, or you are both from different planets then just STOP. OK? Seriously, no use in trying to force a square peg in a round hole, that kind of pain is not the good kind.
It's black and white. Make sure you are crystal clear on where you are coming from. Whether it's a roll in the hay or ...gulp... marriage let the object of your desire know it. Don't haze things over, especially your intentions.
Monopolizing is for business. You have to be able to share time with friends, family, and everyone else. Nothing that burns in a relationship is good... except for a hunk a hunk of burning love, I guess... so spending to much time together is sure to burn you both out. Keep your home fires lit with out burning down the house with a little time apart.
Honesty is the best policy. Make sure you are true to you and your plaything when discussing feelings. Something that 'fits just right' may be too tight tomorrow. Give it a little time before professing true love. It's easy to confuse lust with love, and you may tire of it all before it can get to the love connection.
Give it and take it, baby. In order for any relationship to work you have to have compromise. Be willing to give what you expect to get... in all area's. Double standards are the worst when dealing with someone in close proximity. It's the fastest way to build animosity and a failing future.
So my passion flowers, these are the first few steps to growing roots in romance. Happy planting and don't forget you have to get wet in order to prosper.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
PS You should totally check out my Website www.meowbabe.com!
Well hello there my lovely spring flowers! It's your favorite smitten kitten on a mission to ensure your spring showers turn into some summer lovin'!
So you had that little itch that you were looking for someone to scratch... and maybe you found a suitable set of hands that felt just right in those special spots. How are you going to make sure that things don't go south and you end up with the hives? That's what I'm here for- a lil relationship 101.
Every good relationship needs some foundation laid as it's built. So before you start trying to reap what you sow make sure you know what to plant. These are Tiger RoxXx's tips to building a great relationship.
Make sure you can dig it. You have to be compatible- it's just that simple. No matter how good your first few encounters were if you have nothing in common, your beliefs/goals differ, or you are both from different planets then just STOP. OK? Seriously, no use in trying to force a square peg in a round hole, that kind of pain is not the good kind.
It's black and white. Make sure you are crystal clear on where you are coming from. Whether it's a roll in the hay or ...gulp... marriage let the object of your desire know it. Don't haze things over, especially your intentions.
Monopolizing is for business. You have to be able to share time with friends, family, and everyone else. Nothing that burns in a relationship is good... except for a hunk a hunk of burning love, I guess... so spending to much time together is sure to burn you both out. Keep your home fires lit with out burning down the house with a little time apart.
Honesty is the best policy. Make sure you are true to you and your plaything when discussing feelings. Something that 'fits just right' may be too tight tomorrow. Give it a little time before professing true love. It's easy to confuse lust with love, and you may tire of it all before it can get to the love connection.
Give it and take it, baby. In order for any relationship to work you have to have compromise. Be willing to give what you expect to get... in all area's. Double standards are the worst when dealing with someone in close proximity. It's the fastest way to build animosity and a failing future.
So my passion flowers, these are the first few steps to growing roots in romance. Happy planting and don't forget you have to get wet in order to prosper.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
PS You should totally check out my Website www.meowbabe.com!
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
9 Tips to Internet Dating
Hi there guys and dolls, we thought that we might give you a few pointers on how to make the best most worthwhile use out of the your internet dating experience. Are you new to the internet dating scene, have had trouble connecting, or just want to see where you rank in internet dating experiences? This guide will put you into the right direction.
Tip #1. Write down ten things that you are looking for in your internet dating search. Be specific; what type of person, what outcome, what experiences are you seeking. That will allow you to draw yourself towards the right person and stop wasting valuable time on people who don’t match your goals.
Tip #2. Get great photos. An enduring photo that shows who you really are makes all the difference when approaching someone new. We are visual creatures and playing to that is only to your advantage. In the internet dating world your profile and photo are your first contact with someone.
Tip #3. Make a good profile that describes you. Be sure that a prospective mate can get a clear idea of who they are dealing with. Having essays, messages, and notes that allow for more intimate details about you personally is a great way to get a conversation flowing.
Tip #4. Avoid seeming 'just like everyone else', by not using lines or cliché style wording. First impressions are important, so if you have text that turns someone off or seems cookie cutter then you won’t get far.
Tip #5. Take time to answer questionnaires truthfully; write descriptive essays; show who you really are and be honest. The more sincere and real you seem the more receptive people will be. Internet daters want to feel safe and confident with who they are dealing with, make your true self come through.
Tip #6. Look around. Make lots of contacts, the more people you search through the better your matches will be. Once you have browsed focus your activity to a handful of profiles and work them until success or an end it met.
Tip #7. Compose a short, personalized email. Be sure to mention one thing that caught your eye about the person, add something you have in common. This will allow for a response from them and second contact where you can mention something you'd like to talk about based on what he or she wrote; reply to each email you receive honestly, individually, and with interest; spell check. Don't use pick up lines as an opening line, be sincere. First impressions are crucial here.
Tip #8. Putting yourself out there can be hard work, be sure to have confidence. People sense hesitation, be forthright and focused. Determine the proper time to ask for a live meeting, and just do it.
Tip #9. Stay in touch. Be active in your internet dating usage. You must be vested in order to get a good return. This experience will be what you make it.
So there are the nine tips that we have to help enhance your internet dating experience at ClassyArrangements.com. Let’s hear what you have to say in our forums on this topic and good hunting.
Thanks,
Tiger RoxXx & The Classy Team
Tip #1. Write down ten things that you are looking for in your internet dating search. Be specific; what type of person, what outcome, what experiences are you seeking. That will allow you to draw yourself towards the right person and stop wasting valuable time on people who don’t match your goals.
Tip #2. Get great photos. An enduring photo that shows who you really are makes all the difference when approaching someone new. We are visual creatures and playing to that is only to your advantage. In the internet dating world your profile and photo are your first contact with someone.
Tip #3. Make a good profile that describes you. Be sure that a prospective mate can get a clear idea of who they are dealing with. Having essays, messages, and notes that allow for more intimate details about you personally is a great way to get a conversation flowing.
Tip #4. Avoid seeming 'just like everyone else', by not using lines or cliché style wording. First impressions are important, so if you have text that turns someone off or seems cookie cutter then you won’t get far.
Tip #5. Take time to answer questionnaires truthfully; write descriptive essays; show who you really are and be honest. The more sincere and real you seem the more receptive people will be. Internet daters want to feel safe and confident with who they are dealing with, make your true self come through.
Tip #6. Look around. Make lots of contacts, the more people you search through the better your matches will be. Once you have browsed focus your activity to a handful of profiles and work them until success or an end it met.
Tip #7. Compose a short, personalized email. Be sure to mention one thing that caught your eye about the person, add something you have in common. This will allow for a response from them and second contact where you can mention something you'd like to talk about based on what he or she wrote; reply to each email you receive honestly, individually, and with interest; spell check. Don't use pick up lines as an opening line, be sincere. First impressions are crucial here.
Tip #8. Putting yourself out there can be hard work, be sure to have confidence. People sense hesitation, be forthright and focused. Determine the proper time to ask for a live meeting, and just do it.
Tip #9. Stay in touch. Be active in your internet dating usage. You must be vested in order to get a good return. This experience will be what you make it.
So there are the nine tips that we have to help enhance your internet dating experience at ClassyArrangements.com. Let’s hear what you have to say in our forums on this topic and good hunting.
Thanks,
Tiger RoxXx & The Classy Team
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
5 drunken do's and don'ts
5 drunken do's and don'ts…. by Tiger RoxXx
Sexy salutations my seductive sweets! To honor my inebriated Irish ancestors I thought this month's tribute could help us all out with five little drunken do's and don'ts. Of course, what you do with your sober time is just as important, but in a month of green beer and pub parties it is highly likely that a greater part of your March will be spent under the influence. So as a girl who likes to work the tools that are put in front of her, I thought we could all have a smashed time together. So hold on to your cookies, kittens, this may be a bumpy lil' ride.
Drunken do and don't Number 1. DO make sure that you have plenty of drinking partners. Whether it is a house party, a pub crawl, or a night at the club your motto should be 'the more the merrier'. Passing rounds all around make a happy drunken mob. Definitely DON'T drink alone. This is a bad sign of serious social decline. Unless it is a quick pregame drink before meeting the gang it is a sure sign that you are destined for something sad if you spend night after night in the tank alone.
Drunken do and don't Number 2. DO party like a Rockstar. If you are going to do it, do it right. Own your party time, you deserve it. DON'T have drama or let anyone else's drama interfere with your fun time. Kick all idiot's to the curb, leave all dumb acting fools at the door, and walk away from the suckers who are ready to make you loose your buzz with their negativity. If you are that person, go home- stop ruining our night.
Drunken do and don't Number 3. DO have all the fun you can stand but DON'T have random hook-ups. We have talked about this People, these hook-ups never work out. They might be fun for a minute, a very brief awkward minute, but once everyone sobers up and can see clearer the only thing left between the two of you is regrets. You are surely to run into the person connected to the naughty parts you were attracted to at a later date and they might not be so appealing. They probably also have a mouth, which may use words that can cause you various future issues as well.
Drunken do and don't Number 4. DO the whole party experience. It's a time honored tradition to pregame, party, after party, and breakfast. It's a marathon, loves, start training now! Sometimes the order of it changes, or the places, but you better get ready to take it all, baby. DON'T go home with strangers to strange places, you are drunk, remember? You can't make good judgments. Have your sober buddy decide where you should go. If you don't have a sober buddy, then just don't.
Drunken do and don't Number 5. DO have a plan. Know your limits! Make sure you are with in them; this is a lot of drinking, so make sure you pace yourself. There is always one person who is way too drunk way too early. DON'T make me take pictures of you asleep in the corner of some club somewhere and post them on the internet, because I will. DO Watch how you mix your types of alcohol. If you wimp out and find yourself having to vomit half way through the night DON'T vomit in front of strangers, much less on them. DON'T kiss your boy or girl with puke breathe after you just upchucked, no matter how funny it is when you are drunk.
So my drunken darlings, these are just the broad strokes on the drunken do's and don'ts… hope you have a smashingly great St. Patty's day! I DO hope to see you out there in a safe fun drunken way.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Sexy salutations my seductive sweets! To honor my inebriated Irish ancestors I thought this month's tribute could help us all out with five little drunken do's and don'ts. Of course, what you do with your sober time is just as important, but in a month of green beer and pub parties it is highly likely that a greater part of your March will be spent under the influence. So as a girl who likes to work the tools that are put in front of her, I thought we could all have a smashed time together. So hold on to your cookies, kittens, this may be a bumpy lil' ride.
Drunken do and don't Number 1. DO make sure that you have plenty of drinking partners. Whether it is a house party, a pub crawl, or a night at the club your motto should be 'the more the merrier'. Passing rounds all around make a happy drunken mob. Definitely DON'T drink alone. This is a bad sign of serious social decline. Unless it is a quick pregame drink before meeting the gang it is a sure sign that you are destined for something sad if you spend night after night in the tank alone.
Drunken do and don't Number 2. DO party like a Rockstar. If you are going to do it, do it right. Own your party time, you deserve it. DON'T have drama or let anyone else's drama interfere with your fun time. Kick all idiot's to the curb, leave all dumb acting fools at the door, and walk away from the suckers who are ready to make you loose your buzz with their negativity. If you are that person, go home- stop ruining our night.
Drunken do and don't Number 3. DO have all the fun you can stand but DON'T have random hook-ups. We have talked about this People, these hook-ups never work out. They might be fun for a minute, a very brief awkward minute, but once everyone sobers up and can see clearer the only thing left between the two of you is regrets. You are surely to run into the person connected to the naughty parts you were attracted to at a later date and they might not be so appealing. They probably also have a mouth, which may use words that can cause you various future issues as well.
Drunken do and don't Number 4. DO the whole party experience. It's a time honored tradition to pregame, party, after party, and breakfast. It's a marathon, loves, start training now! Sometimes the order of it changes, or the places, but you better get ready to take it all, baby. DON'T go home with strangers to strange places, you are drunk, remember? You can't make good judgments. Have your sober buddy decide where you should go. If you don't have a sober buddy, then just don't.
Drunken do and don't Number 5. DO have a plan. Know your limits! Make sure you are with in them; this is a lot of drinking, so make sure you pace yourself. There is always one person who is way too drunk way too early. DON'T make me take pictures of you asleep in the corner of some club somewhere and post them on the internet, because I will. DO Watch how you mix your types of alcohol. If you wimp out and find yourself having to vomit half way through the night DON'T vomit in front of strangers, much less on them. DON'T kiss your boy or girl with puke breathe after you just upchucked, no matter how funny it is when you are drunk.
So my drunken darlings, these are just the broad strokes on the drunken do's and don'ts… hope you have a smashingly great St. Patty's day! I DO hope to see you out there in a safe fun drunken way.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Five Girlie No No’s…
Five Girlie No No’s… by Tiger RoxXx
Happy Saint Valentine’s Day my little lovers! I thought in this month full of passion and affection I would give you ladies five clues on what scare’s off the opposite sex. Of course there are many things that make us ‘hot under the collar’, but these top five traits will keep you in the clear if you can avoid them. Steam your love up in a good way, instead of making your Fella smelter with aggravation.
Since we pick on the guys often enough I thought I would help you sassy lass’s out this month with these little behavioral No No’s.
No No #1. Acting jealous – Jealousy is unbecoming. It makes a man feel backed into the fire. To much pressure can make a guy explode… and we aren’t talking wet dreams here. Be confident and self assured, if you have a jealousy problem you should not be with anyone until you are satisfied with yourself.
No No #2. Being too emotional –Having emotions at the right time is great, but remember men and women speak different languages. If you are not aware of the distinction between your emotional levels and his it could make for uncomfortable exchanges. Do not change who you are, change how you communicate it. This will allow for the heat in the relationship to stay in the right places.
No No #3. Seeming needy – While your actions may not appear needy to you, perception is reality in the man’s world. Multiple calls, stop ins, and communications can definitely seem over bearing to a guy, while to a chic it is ‘getting to know you’ time. Make plans to see each other so he will burn for you when he does see you.
No No #4. Talking to much – Now girls, don’t get offended… but we all know that due to nerves, habit, and nature chica’s are prone to let their mouths blaze way more than gente’s have patience for. This can lead to lots of issue’s… those skeletons come out of the closet way to early, character flaws seem amplified, and you don’t have time to listen which allows him to hide his weaknesses. Try to give it as much as you get it, ladies.
No No #5. Using sex as a weapon – I have heard comments implying that I am killer in bed, drop dead gorgeous, and that I execute tease with expertise BUT I would never use my skills for evil. In past articles we have discussed proper conduct to communicate, how to identify a loser, and ways to leave your lover so playing spiteful games is not necessary!!! Stooping to his level by using sex as a weapon is bad, and you will get no spankings. Find a better way to play or you will find yourself playing with fire.
So my darling dolls, these are the naughty No No’s that will put out your love’s flames if you aren’t careful. I hope you have a happy Valentine’s day that is No No free on me!
Meow baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Happy Saint Valentine’s Day my little lovers! I thought in this month full of passion and affection I would give you ladies five clues on what scare’s off the opposite sex. Of course there are many things that make us ‘hot under the collar’, but these top five traits will keep you in the clear if you can avoid them. Steam your love up in a good way, instead of making your Fella smelter with aggravation.
Since we pick on the guys often enough I thought I would help you sassy lass’s out this month with these little behavioral No No’s.
No No #1. Acting jealous – Jealousy is unbecoming. It makes a man feel backed into the fire. To much pressure can make a guy explode… and we aren’t talking wet dreams here. Be confident and self assured, if you have a jealousy problem you should not be with anyone until you are satisfied with yourself.
No No #2. Being too emotional –Having emotions at the right time is great, but remember men and women speak different languages. If you are not aware of the distinction between your emotional levels and his it could make for uncomfortable exchanges. Do not change who you are, change how you communicate it. This will allow for the heat in the relationship to stay in the right places.
No No #3. Seeming needy – While your actions may not appear needy to you, perception is reality in the man’s world. Multiple calls, stop ins, and communications can definitely seem over bearing to a guy, while to a chic it is ‘getting to know you’ time. Make plans to see each other so he will burn for you when he does see you.
No No #4. Talking to much – Now girls, don’t get offended… but we all know that due to nerves, habit, and nature chica’s are prone to let their mouths blaze way more than gente’s have patience for. This can lead to lots of issue’s… those skeletons come out of the closet way to early, character flaws seem amplified, and you don’t have time to listen which allows him to hide his weaknesses. Try to give it as much as you get it, ladies.
No No #5. Using sex as a weapon – I have heard comments implying that I am killer in bed, drop dead gorgeous, and that I execute tease with expertise BUT I would never use my skills for evil. In past articles we have discussed proper conduct to communicate, how to identify a loser, and ways to leave your lover so playing spiteful games is not necessary!!! Stooping to his level by using sex as a weapon is bad, and you will get no spankings. Find a better way to play or you will find yourself playing with fire.
So my darling dolls, these are the naughty No No’s that will put out your love’s flames if you aren’t careful. I hope you have a happy Valentine’s day that is No No free on me!
Meow baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Monday, January 12, 2009
5 guys you should never date….
5 guys you should never date….by Tiger RoxXx
Happy New Year my lovely purring pretties! I thought I would start this year off right with a little something that could help you all know what you should, or more over, shouldn't look for in this optimistic New Year. My feline heart had to giggle when writing this article, because I am sure some careless cad's eyes popped wide when seeing the title to this little number - but I will not call out individuals but character traits that you should avoid.
So for you gents whose peepers cross this page, take note's love, does this sound like you?
Mr. Wrong #1: The Controller. There are tasty times in life when a man taking charge is just the thing a girl needs. The Controller believes that he has the power to dictate what you wear, where you go, who your friends are, or many other aspects of your life. Initially it may seem like dedicated interest, but before long he will have you tucked away in his little world as yours disappears.
Mr. Wrong #2: The Sulker. Negative people suck… and not in a good way. Unfortunately there are some poor souls who live for it. Keep your distance from The Sulker because he will try to envelope you in his negativity and gloom. If you don't fall prey to it you will surely be sore trying to pull him out of the pits of doom.
Mr. Wrong #3: The Liar. We all know that The Liar is one to keep away from but unfortunately it seems this is impossible for some. Once the mistruth trend starts it is hard to erase. Some men feel pushed to deceive when asked a lot of pointed questions, if unrealistic expectations are set, or you react poorly to the truth. This by no means makes it right, but it implies that the two of you will always have that style of interaction and I can think of much better ways to relate.
Mr. Wrong #4: The Player. If you know you are looking for a relationship The Player is like kryptonite to your cause. While I believe that playing games is a great past time, all the characters should know the rules if they are involved. If your love interest is a player when you meet then don't think this habit is going to fade fast. Steer clear from these guys unless all you are after is a good time.
Mr. Wrong #5: The Fiend. The Fiend is the guy who is always after your cash. He is always borrowing, begging, and let's hope not stealing to handle his business and we all know that is not sexy. It is all too easy for him take advantage of a gesture and never appreciate your kindness. The Fiend will have many excuses and few contributions to the relationship. We all know it is better to give and to receive, right?
Watch out for these Mr. Wrong's so you can leave room for Mr. Right. So my New Year's Babies these are my cautions to you. Don't settle for less because you deserve the best and let's make 2009 a sexy, fun filled, healthy, happy new year!!!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Happy New Year my lovely purring pretties! I thought I would start this year off right with a little something that could help you all know what you should, or more over, shouldn't look for in this optimistic New Year. My feline heart had to giggle when writing this article, because I am sure some careless cad's eyes popped wide when seeing the title to this little number - but I will not call out individuals but character traits that you should avoid.
So for you gents whose peepers cross this page, take note's love, does this sound like you?
Mr. Wrong #1: The Controller. There are tasty times in life when a man taking charge is just the thing a girl needs. The Controller believes that he has the power to dictate what you wear, where you go, who your friends are, or many other aspects of your life. Initially it may seem like dedicated interest, but before long he will have you tucked away in his little world as yours disappears.
Mr. Wrong #2: The Sulker. Negative people suck… and not in a good way. Unfortunately there are some poor souls who live for it. Keep your distance from The Sulker because he will try to envelope you in his negativity and gloom. If you don't fall prey to it you will surely be sore trying to pull him out of the pits of doom.
Mr. Wrong #3: The Liar. We all know that The Liar is one to keep away from but unfortunately it seems this is impossible for some. Once the mistruth trend starts it is hard to erase. Some men feel pushed to deceive when asked a lot of pointed questions, if unrealistic expectations are set, or you react poorly to the truth. This by no means makes it right, but it implies that the two of you will always have that style of interaction and I can think of much better ways to relate.
Mr. Wrong #4: The Player. If you know you are looking for a relationship The Player is like kryptonite to your cause. While I believe that playing games is a great past time, all the characters should know the rules if they are involved. If your love interest is a player when you meet then don't think this habit is going to fade fast. Steer clear from these guys unless all you are after is a good time.
Mr. Wrong #5: The Fiend. The Fiend is the guy who is always after your cash. He is always borrowing, begging, and let's hope not stealing to handle his business and we all know that is not sexy. It is all too easy for him take advantage of a gesture and never appreciate your kindness. The Fiend will have many excuses and few contributions to the relationship. We all know it is better to give and to receive, right?
Watch out for these Mr. Wrong's so you can leave room for Mr. Right. So my New Year's Babies these are my cautions to you. Don't settle for less because you deserve the best and let's make 2009 a sexy, fun filled, healthy, happy new year!!!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Give it to me baby…
Give it to me baby… by Tiger RoxXx
Hello there my lovely gifts to this sexy society! It is your precious kitten on a mission here to get you what you want for this holiday season. Now as a girl who knows what she wants I can give you a list a mile long on how to make me purr with glee when looking under my tree this year, but how do you tell that special someone how to please you?
It is a dangerous topic that definitely needs addressing because not enough people express themselves when it comes to sex. Who better to help you in the bedroom than me? I am sure you have had this thought before, too! Right!?! So let's get down and dirty, or leather and lace, or whips and chains, or whatever your likes and dislikes may be- and do a little sharing.
How do you approach the topic?
A little sexual check-up is healthy in any relationship. If there is an obvious problem then be gentle with your mount of the topic, but this does not mean let it go. There may be factors contributing to the lack of intimacy such as stress, depression, or medication. Being forthright and honest with your wants and needs at the right time, like when having a picnic in the bedroom, will show you are not complaining but trying to improve things. Do not use negative words, stay focused on your wants/desires.
Does it make you look bad to have sexual knowledge?
Approaching the topic of heightened sexual experiences will not make you look bad. Do not compare old lovers with your current one, but do be free to improve current sexual encounters with positive reinforcements. Remember you can get a Bachelor's Degree in something and still have only went to one school! Just because you are good doesn't mean you spread your knowledge through out the land!
Want to get creative with your sex life?
You deserve to be fulfilled! As does your partner, so remember that! Roll playing, games, trying new things, the list goes on and on! Nothing kills a sex life faster than being bored. Chances are if you are bored, so are they! Dress up! Be creative, and make sure you experiment! There is no shame in trying new things!
What if your likes/dislikes differ?
You have to be open to all ideas…with in reason, that is! You may not know if what tickles his fancy will tickle yours as well until you give it a shot. It is better to give and receive, so be willing to take a chance with them and make sure they return the favor. If you end up being totally incapable sexually you may need to go a step further into evaluating the status of the relationship.
How do you keep it fresh?
Keep sex on the front burner. Evaluate on a regular basis, whether things are good or not so much. Having the habit of a check up will keep pleasure on your mind when the time comes and make you a more sexual person in general. Find activities that you haven't done before, or places you haven't tried just to mix it up. Give yourself permission to be pleased how you want.
So my little love muffins, I hope you go straight away to your lovers door and beat it down with my advice. I will be listening for your bumps in the night air! Happy Holidays to you and yours and be sure to wrap your packages.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Be sure to email me with your comments, love notes, and ideas at tigerroxxx@gmail.com!
Hello there my lovely gifts to this sexy society! It is your precious kitten on a mission here to get you what you want for this holiday season. Now as a girl who knows what she wants I can give you a list a mile long on how to make me purr with glee when looking under my tree this year, but how do you tell that special someone how to please you?
It is a dangerous topic that definitely needs addressing because not enough people express themselves when it comes to sex. Who better to help you in the bedroom than me? I am sure you have had this thought before, too! Right!?! So let's get down and dirty, or leather and lace, or whips and chains, or whatever your likes and dislikes may be- and do a little sharing.
How do you approach the topic?
A little sexual check-up is healthy in any relationship. If there is an obvious problem then be gentle with your mount of the topic, but this does not mean let it go. There may be factors contributing to the lack of intimacy such as stress, depression, or medication. Being forthright and honest with your wants and needs at the right time, like when having a picnic in the bedroom, will show you are not complaining but trying to improve things. Do not use negative words, stay focused on your wants/desires.
Does it make you look bad to have sexual knowledge?
Approaching the topic of heightened sexual experiences will not make you look bad. Do not compare old lovers with your current one, but do be free to improve current sexual encounters with positive reinforcements. Remember you can get a Bachelor's Degree in something and still have only went to one school! Just because you are good doesn't mean you spread your knowledge through out the land!
Want to get creative with your sex life?
You deserve to be fulfilled! As does your partner, so remember that! Roll playing, games, trying new things, the list goes on and on! Nothing kills a sex life faster than being bored. Chances are if you are bored, so are they! Dress up! Be creative, and make sure you experiment! There is no shame in trying new things!
What if your likes/dislikes differ?
You have to be open to all ideas…with in reason, that is! You may not know if what tickles his fancy will tickle yours as well until you give it a shot. It is better to give and receive, so be willing to take a chance with them and make sure they return the favor. If you end up being totally incapable sexually you may need to go a step further into evaluating the status of the relationship.
How do you keep it fresh?
Keep sex on the front burner. Evaluate on a regular basis, whether things are good or not so much. Having the habit of a check up will keep pleasure on your mind when the time comes and make you a more sexual person in general. Find activities that you haven't done before, or places you haven't tried just to mix it up. Give yourself permission to be pleased how you want.
So my little love muffins, I hope you go straight away to your lovers door and beat it down with my advice. I will be listening for your bumps in the night air! Happy Holidays to you and yours and be sure to wrap your packages.
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Be sure to email me with your comments, love notes, and ideas at tigerroxxx@gmail.com!
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