Monday, December 1, 2008
Thursday, October 2, 2008
What's love got to do with it?
What's love got to do with it?
The Tiger RoxXx guide to casual dating…by Tiger RoxXx
September, 2008
Happy hot summer nights my juicy darlings! It is your friendly neighborhood sex kitten here to chat about that misunderstood topic of the casual relationship. Now we all know that everybody wants somebody to love, but you may have to play the field before you find that special one to that makes you want to settle in for the home run! So, it is up to you to decide how you make the best of it when you play the game.
But what is casual dating? By definition it is: two people who are trying to get to know one another better, without commitments or promises through dating. Either or both parties can be casually dating other people. Nice! Right? Well, it should be! How do you keep it all in the pretty little package it started out in? Let's discuss the guide to being a causal dater.
1) Open Communication. Be clear on your motives for being a casual dater. Is it to find 'the one'? Is it because you are not ready for a commitment? Is it because you love multiple relationships? Whatever, just be clear! The other person should live with it and continue to date you or move to someone with the same goals.
2) Make dating boundaries. Make sure there are clear and established expectations. There doesn't have to be a regiment, but if both parties understand the 'contact' rules then there will be no surprises that cause either party to be uncomfortable later and possibly a good thing to stop. Do you think public affection is 'a fine time' and she thinks it is 'not so much', is she calling every day and you consider that invasion of space?… these are things that need to be determined…and what about sex? Enough said!
3) Do not expect it to turn into a relationship. Even if both parties' goals are to look for their love, the issue may seem forced if you push it and therefore won't flow as easy. Just concentrate on the date not a mate.
4) Date multiple people. You are casual dating, so don't limit yourself. If you bound yourself to only one person, you can not see all of your options and experience the opportunities of casual dating.
5) Date a variety of compatible people. If you cookie cutter your options you might as well just stop now! Sure we all have our tastes and likes and dislikes, but that doesn't mean our idea of a good time can't vary in a wide spectrum. Try to flow from one end of it to the other to be sure you shop around.
So my darling daters don't feel bad about fooling around with your share of sweet hearts in order to end up with the right tasty treat. Oh, and dating means you have to actually do something you both like at a planned time. You don't have to spend money but there is a difference in dating and hanging out…but that is another lesson in itself. (hint hint) And remember that you are your best beloved, so love yourself first!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
The Tiger RoxXx guide to casual dating…by Tiger RoxXx
September, 2008
Happy hot summer nights my juicy darlings! It is your friendly neighborhood sex kitten here to chat about that misunderstood topic of the casual relationship. Now we all know that everybody wants somebody to love, but you may have to play the field before you find that special one to that makes you want to settle in for the home run! So, it is up to you to decide how you make the best of it when you play the game.
But what is casual dating? By definition it is: two people who are trying to get to know one another better, without commitments or promises through dating. Either or both parties can be casually dating other people. Nice! Right? Well, it should be! How do you keep it all in the pretty little package it started out in? Let's discuss the guide to being a causal dater.
1) Open Communication. Be clear on your motives for being a casual dater. Is it to find 'the one'? Is it because you are not ready for a commitment? Is it because you love multiple relationships? Whatever, just be clear! The other person should live with it and continue to date you or move to someone with the same goals.
2) Make dating boundaries. Make sure there are clear and established expectations. There doesn't have to be a regiment, but if both parties understand the 'contact' rules then there will be no surprises that cause either party to be uncomfortable later and possibly a good thing to stop. Do you think public affection is 'a fine time' and she thinks it is 'not so much', is she calling every day and you consider that invasion of space?… these are things that need to be determined…and what about sex? Enough said!
3) Do not expect it to turn into a relationship. Even if both parties' goals are to look for their love, the issue may seem forced if you push it and therefore won't flow as easy. Just concentrate on the date not a mate.
4) Date multiple people. You are casual dating, so don't limit yourself. If you bound yourself to only one person, you can not see all of your options and experience the opportunities of casual dating.
5) Date a variety of compatible people. If you cookie cutter your options you might as well just stop now! Sure we all have our tastes and likes and dislikes, but that doesn't mean our idea of a good time can't vary in a wide spectrum. Try to flow from one end of it to the other to be sure you shop around.
So my darling daters don't feel bad about fooling around with your share of sweet hearts in order to end up with the right tasty treat. Oh, and dating means you have to actually do something you both like at a planned time. You don't have to spend money but there is a difference in dating and hanging out…but that is another lesson in itself. (hint hint) And remember that you are your best beloved, so love yourself first!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
He said, She heard by Tiger RoxXx
He said, She heard
Hello my darlings, it is your favorite vicious kitten here to talk about the most common mistake you lads and lass's make when it comes to coming together. Bad communication! I see it on the streets and in the bars, and have even been a victim of it myself at times. Why is it so common? Why such an issue? Men and women speak different languages, listen differently, and comprehend in totally separate manners. So what is the deal?
Men seem to speak one language, the one of carnal urges,while women speak the ancient art of the unspoken word.SO how do we get the two worlds to meet? Thinking you had made yourself clear, and somehow, someway, the earsyou were whispering in misread your signals! Whether it is the commonly dreaded "I'm OK!" to the unspoken languagethat he should just KNOW! There is one thing that is for sure- if you do not speak your mind clearly you will not be heard.
So here are your Tiger Tidbits to be sure we are all speaking the same jive talk!
1) Communication is more than just talking. You have to be sure to make your statement in clear, concise, and easyto understand manner. Put it in a way that would take away any feelings of negativity, even if saying things that the otherperson may not like or agree with. Keep the ears you are speaking to as open as your mouth, so other avenues will stay open as well.
2) Listening is key. In order to have open communication it must be two sided. That means listen as well as speak. Donot just hear, but understand what your cutie is saying. Be open to hear the whole story no matter what it is, and they will be open to your stories as well.
3) Confirm. If you have any questions at all, or think you are missing something - ask. Also, if you feel the least bit up-set by what your sweetheart is saying, make sure you know. You may have misunderstood. It's better to ask and let a fire start in the right place later than keep your mouth shutwhile flames of anger burn bright.
4) Be yourself. Don't change your views, self, or attitudes to blend towards your mate - eventually your true opinions will surface. Put your real opinion forward so your little lovie will know what you think- like it, love it, or don't want to take it they have a right to hear it and maketheir own decisions.
5) Chit chat. Don't always talk about serious stuff. Especially in long term relationships cohorts seem to discuss business only. Be sure to keep an open line of communication and playfulness through spontaneous chit chat.
So that is my communication to you my loves, you know I like to keep it flowing! Now go out and spread the word!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Hello my darlings, it is your favorite vicious kitten here to talk about the most common mistake you lads and lass's make when it comes to coming together. Bad communication! I see it on the streets and in the bars, and have even been a victim of it myself at times. Why is it so common? Why such an issue? Men and women speak different languages, listen differently, and comprehend in totally separate manners. So what is the deal?
Men seem to speak one language, the one of carnal urges,while women speak the ancient art of the unspoken word.SO how do we get the two worlds to meet? Thinking you had made yourself clear, and somehow, someway, the earsyou were whispering in misread your signals! Whether it is the commonly dreaded "I'm OK!" to the unspoken languagethat he should just KNOW! There is one thing that is for sure- if you do not speak your mind clearly you will not be heard.
So here are your Tiger Tidbits to be sure we are all speaking the same jive talk!
1) Communication is more than just talking. You have to be sure to make your statement in clear, concise, and easyto understand manner. Put it in a way that would take away any feelings of negativity, even if saying things that the otherperson may not like or agree with. Keep the ears you are speaking to as open as your mouth, so other avenues will stay open as well.
2) Listening is key. In order to have open communication it must be two sided. That means listen as well as speak. Donot just hear, but understand what your cutie is saying. Be open to hear the whole story no matter what it is, and they will be open to your stories as well.
3) Confirm. If you have any questions at all, or think you are missing something - ask. Also, if you feel the least bit up-set by what your sweetheart is saying, make sure you know. You may have misunderstood. It's better to ask and let a fire start in the right place later than keep your mouth shutwhile flames of anger burn bright.
4) Be yourself. Don't change your views, self, or attitudes to blend towards your mate - eventually your true opinions will surface. Put your real opinion forward so your little lovie will know what you think- like it, love it, or don't want to take it they have a right to hear it and maketheir own decisions.
5) Chit chat. Don't always talk about serious stuff. Especially in long term relationships cohorts seem to discuss business only. Be sure to keep an open line of communication and playfulness through spontaneous chit chat.
So that is my communication to you my loves, you know I like to keep it flowing! Now go out and spread the word!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Visit my T-Shirt Shop
Visit my T-Shirt Shop
Hi there my sexy friends!I have my own little T-Shirt shop with funny sayings, sexy T's, and YES...Tiger RoxXx logo shirts!
Go to http://220821.spreadshirt.com/us/US/Shop to see what is going on, and purchase yours today!
New styles and designs are added daily!
XOXOXOXOXOXO
Tiger RoxXx
Hi there my sexy friends!I have my own little T-Shirt shop with funny sayings, sexy T's, and YES...Tiger RoxXx logo shirts!
Go to http://220821.spreadshirt.com/us/US/Shop to see what is going on, and purchase yours today!
New styles and designs are added daily!
XOXOXOXOXOXO
Tiger RoxXx
Love Sick- When Romance makes you Ill
Love Sick- When Romance makes you Ill…by Tiger RoxXx
Hi there my lovelies! It’s your sharp toothed feline friend here with a few words to sink your teeth into. We are creeping into the dog days of summer, and as the heat grows so can the passion of the season. This little number is about that crazy thing called love, and how it can get out of control. “Crazy…Crazy in love with you!” That is how the song goes, right? You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you can’t think of anything but your love. Well, what is fine as wine and what is that one step that puts you over the edge? Let’s talk about it!
Most people want someone they can share a part of themselves with, open up to, be a part of- but what happens when that connection of selves blurs your lives? Love addiction is a serious problem that is often over looked in relationships. (“she’s pyscho…he’s possesive”) We have all had those bad relationship’s, I talk about them all the time, but what happens when you turn that person into a focal point and the love goes bad? It happens more than you know.
Love Addiction affects a person like any other impulse action except that it has to do with love and sexual interactions. Since ‘love’ is part of the addiction people often don’t understand the dangers involved in the situation. A person may fall so deeply they react and act differently then they would in a normal situation, becoming obsessed with a person and the connecting interactive situations. This does not necessary stem from their lover- don’t get it twisted, mister, it wasn’t about you- but about life situation they were lacking at the time. A love addict can also carry those habits into other relationships, once the traits are learned.
So, are you nervous yet? Are you looking around to see if you are the addict or your love? Well, here are some signs:
Do you lack trust in any relationship?
Do you need a partner in order to feel worthy?
Are you tolerant of excessive behavior?
Do you have several addictions?
Do you believe love is the same thing as sex?
So now what? Well with any style of addiction you have to recognize and decide you want to make a change. Then go to the root of the issue, because like I said it’s not the love it’s the addict… what is the addict lacking that needs to be filled with the obessive love. Then seek help because this is a serious matter. Love addiction can lead to dramatic and aggressive behavior if the addict is not responded to properly. Talk to someone about it, keep yourself in check!
Well, my tasty treats, those are my words of wisdom for this month of heat!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
Hi there my lovelies! It’s your sharp toothed feline friend here with a few words to sink your teeth into. We are creeping into the dog days of summer, and as the heat grows so can the passion of the season. This little number is about that crazy thing called love, and how it can get out of control. “Crazy…Crazy in love with you!” That is how the song goes, right? You can’t eat, you can’t sleep, you can’t think of anything but your love. Well, what is fine as wine and what is that one step that puts you over the edge? Let’s talk about it!
Most people want someone they can share a part of themselves with, open up to, be a part of- but what happens when that connection of selves blurs your lives? Love addiction is a serious problem that is often over looked in relationships. (“she’s pyscho…he’s possesive”) We have all had those bad relationship’s, I talk about them all the time, but what happens when you turn that person into a focal point and the love goes bad? It happens more than you know.
Love Addiction affects a person like any other impulse action except that it has to do with love and sexual interactions. Since ‘love’ is part of the addiction people often don’t understand the dangers involved in the situation. A person may fall so deeply they react and act differently then they would in a normal situation, becoming obsessed with a person and the connecting interactive situations. This does not necessary stem from their lover- don’t get it twisted, mister, it wasn’t about you- but about life situation they were lacking at the time. A love addict can also carry those habits into other relationships, once the traits are learned.
So, are you nervous yet? Are you looking around to see if you are the addict or your love? Well, here are some signs:
Do you lack trust in any relationship?
Do you need a partner in order to feel worthy?
Are you tolerant of excessive behavior?
Do you have several addictions?
Do you believe love is the same thing as sex?
So now what? Well with any style of addiction you have to recognize and decide you want to make a change. Then go to the root of the issue, because like I said it’s not the love it’s the addict… what is the addict lacking that needs to be filled with the obessive love. Then seek help because this is a serious matter. Love addiction can lead to dramatic and aggressive behavior if the addict is not responded to properly. Talk to someone about it, keep yourself in check!
Well, my tasty treats, those are my words of wisdom for this month of heat!
Meow Baby,
Tiger RoxXx
The Judgement of the Screen
Hi there my lovelies! As you saw yesterday my good friend and Boylesque Buddy Smokin' McQueen was on NBC on America's Got Talent Tues. Night. We are starting a campaign against NBC and the Hoff due to their unfair judgment of people based on looks, not TALENT. The Hoff has consistently favored the stereotypical look of the female,(and sometimes male) and made mean and degrading comments about people's aesthetics, not their talents. It is not "America's Most Likely to Fit into Society Due to Their Common Every Day Acceptable Looks" it is 'America's Got Talent'...so here is the contact page for NBC:
http://www.nbc.com/Footer/Contact_Us/
You have to choose the show, America's Got Talent when writing your email. Then let them know that as Proud, Happy, totally giving and loving Americans we will no longer be smashed into the stereotypes of what is or is not acceptable as far as aesthetics go! We are proud of what we look like in all our shapes and sizes! We are gutsy to stand up and show our talents and share them with people, allowing the populous to benefit from our amazingness!
Do not try to suppress us or hold us back because we are beautiful and talented and proud!
BTW, they have a 'diversity' section hidden in their site...HA! Please write to further the growth of the self love of the American populous, and to stifle these rude, degrading, and emotionally abusive comments being allowed to be aired on national TV.
Thanks for all you guys who wrote me already on this matter! I love you!
Oh yeah, and here is Smokin’s clip.
http://www.nbc.com/Footer/Contact_Us/
You have to choose the show, America's Got Talent when writing your email. Then let them know that as Proud, Happy, totally giving and loving Americans we will no longer be smashed into the stereotypes of what is or is not acceptable as far as aesthetics go! We are proud of what we look like in all our shapes and sizes! We are gutsy to stand up and show our talents and share them with people, allowing the populous to benefit from our amazingness!
Do not try to suppress us or hold us back because we are beautiful and talented and proud!
BTW, they have a 'diversity' section hidden in their site...HA! Please write to further the growth of the self love of the American populous, and to stifle these rude, degrading, and emotionally abusive comments being allowed to be aired on national TV.
Thanks for all you guys who wrote me already on this matter! I love you!
Oh yeah, and here is Smokin’s clip.
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